Simplified action plan to spin plates

Dev_on · 2015-01-26T20:31:24+00:00

That took longer to read/write than to implement. Thinking can be your enemy. People can think of excuses not to work out, to not talk to someone new...

think less, do more. by the time you have your perfect plan written down, someone else could have gone out and winged it, gaining more experience. By the time you remember all your 'rules' the other person would have gotten bored waiting for a response and left.

Don't think... just do. Fail often, fast, and learn from it. You can't learn to drive by reading the manual

FrameWalker · 2015-01-26T22:14:10+00:00

Here's a real action plan.

1) Approach x women on tinder/okc/nighttime /daygame Get numbers or close if skilled
2)setup dates using numbers. 'lets grab coffee Thursday at 12'
3) escalate to close or rejection over the course of 2-3 dates
4) once you sleep w them keep them spinning.
5) choose your favorite three
6) repeat

RedPope · 2015-01-27T00:35:05+00:00

I finally understand that there isn’t one woman who will do all this, rather it is the role of the woman at the moment, and it will be a revolving door of actresses playing the part, fading in and out

Great quote.

I deliberately chopped off the end of the sentence. Women will come and women will go. Sometimes you will know why, sometimes you won't. Doesn't really matter, does it? She had fun, you had fun, and the next fun girl is just around the corner.

SkorchZang · 2015-01-27T01:42:18+00:00

The big thing with spinning plates is the little word "no".

When she starts with the whole "so am I going to be your girlfriend", and you tell her no.

Takes some balls at first, you are telling a woman she can't have what she wants and feels she is entitled to have with any man. It's terrifying, she might leave... But in reality more often than not, it only makes you more attractive to her. Women want what they can't have.

Second big thing is accepting that all plates eventually fall and break. It's the same with "normal" LTRs, but men are usually in denial about it, acting like they're in the "happily ever after" stretch now that they got a girlfriend. It's always time-limited, every LTR (and marriage) has a built in expiry date.

Sometimes the inevitable can be somewhat delayed and sometimes, mired in their Disney delusion, people will put up with stale LTRs for months and years, instead of grabbing something fresh.

[deleted] · 2015-01-26T22:32:19+00:00

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[deleted] · 2015-01-26T18:31:23+00:00

You know what you're looking for and where to find it, but don't specify what?

I personally think you're a case of over analysis, like someone who researches their perfect macro ratio constantly while not actually eating those macros.

Title	Simplified action plan to spin plates
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Upvotes	9
Comments	20
Date	January 26, 2015 5:23 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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