Something I've noticed about guys that really like hot blondes and even have an obsession with getting them.

pilledwillingly · 2015-10-20T03:39:29+00:00

Aren't we all trying to fill a hole from the past, though? I think we set our goals based on what we've wanted, and when we reach them, the time that we made those plans is well in the past. Being swole is filling your past self's hole of being small, and bagging a hot blonde sorority chick is fulfilling what your past self couldn't: Being attractive to the social alpha females.

I think the fixation on the blonde sorority chick is definitely a social/media thing where we have watched so many movies and music clips where the tightest white blonde girl is the star, and we've slowly built up a preference for blondes over brunettes.

I guess I personally fall into your category of a blonde-chaser, but I'm not going to kill myself over it, nor am I going to concede to an LTR to get it, I just thing they stand out more, and yeah, are probably at the female social apex, so carry a bit of status when you nab one. It's shallow and shameless, but as long as you're not basing your self-worth on your ability to fuck one of them, it's just a preference like any other.

Amazongkong · 2015-10-20T04:01:22+00:00

I have to confess that this is true for me personally.

Growing up in Missouri as an Asian guy, it was very taboo for a good looking white girl (especially of the blonde variety) to go interracial. Black guys had some success if they were involved with sports but all other minority groups were seen as "foreign" and "different"; Missouri is one place you don't want to be labeled as different. My teenage years were sexless and I had to endure a lot of open racism in the form of insults and racial slurs. I remember looking at this one cute blonde cheerleader in high school and smiling only to have some redneck guy literally say to me "what you looking at her for boy? She don't want no Chinamen and neither do the rest of em, just stay with your own kind". Being an Asian kid that went to a school full of rednecks and ghetto black kids, we didn't have the typical "cool crowd" that most normal high schools do and I finished high school as a virgin.

I would then move to California and get into the game, started going after blondes hardcore and I heard it all my life. Blonde women don't want anything other than white guys or in some instances, black guys. To make matters worse, that is the ONE demographic of women I struggled with in California, not a more rude, stuck up, and arrogant group of women out there. I even passed up opportunities with cute girls of minority groups and other hair colors just because I was so focused on blondes.

Then opportunities started to open up, in my 20s I lost my virginity to a blonde and then slept with about ten more of them throughout the years until I finally branched out to other women. Whenever I fucked a blonde or made out with one, it is almost like a weight was slowly being lifted off of my back. I ended up fucking country blondes, sorority blondes, California blondes, southern blondes, foreign blondes, and even a blonde latina from Argentina!

The thing is, I've noticed how I feel so much better when I fuck a redhead or brunette compared to a blonde. All that time, I was more attracted to a brunette but I felt like I had to fuck a lot of blondes to somehow get over all that crap in the past I went through. At this point, I am more attracted to girls of minority groups than a blonde but I feel like this is because I have actually managed to get with a lot of blondes. I never had blondes at the top of my list when it came to sexual desire but I had a score to settle with the past and fucking a lot of blondes was one way to do it....

PlanB_pedofile · 2015-10-20T05:51:07+00:00

The majority of blondes are not really blonde "Just look at the eyebrows guys..."

Only good quality I can say is their leg hair is almost non existent due to the light color, carpet matching the drapes is even kinkier, and often have pretty eyes. That's about it.

exit_sandman · 2015-10-20T07:52:05+00:00

As someone who is also irritated by the general obsession specifically with blondes, I agree.

Claude_Reborn · 2015-10-20T11:14:22+00:00

Pffft.

Blondes are the background radiation of Australian women.

Ever present and easy to ignore.

ledditor_1337 · 2015-10-20T04:28:23+00:00

Guys that like hot blondes rarely like them for their looks alone, they are trying to fill a hole from the past.

Fill a hole eh? eh he he he.

druganswer · 2015-10-20T03:44:56+00:00

I knew that guy was going to get brought up but I somewhat agree. I think that's why a lot of mediocre girls use that look. Because it isn't the specific girl that gets guys hooked, it's the "look" or the idea of the "blonde sorority girl." It makes up for their looks somewhat.

Guys have the same thing. If you fall into a specific niche you get bonus points for any girls that are into that niche... so if you want to snag girls a little out of your pay grade dedicate yourself to a specific look and go for girls that are into that. You also need to assess your natural look and body type when deciding obviously.

abetterarsonist · 2015-10-20T04:21:05+00:00

I never really thought about it, but I was raised overseas and never much cared blondes. Perhaps it really is an American thing. I tend to go for European beauty standards, preferring tall thin brunettes with smaller breasts and who have a look and fashion sense that is devoid of fads, which was common when I was growing up. Heh, I didn't hook up with sorority blondes either but I have an antipathy for them rather than a fetish.

Bellum00 · 2015-10-20T08:40:16+00:00

I prefer dark haired, golden skinned girls, so I'll use blondes as a pivot. I love stating "I don't do blondes" in the middle of a group of women. It leads to qualifying by the blondes, who are (of self-)perceived high value and who you can then neg further about not being natural blondes, and amused interest (schadenfreude?) of the other women.

Derbi50 · 2015-10-20T05:49:10+00:00

Interesting theory. There is definitely an idea in most guys heads that blondes are desirable and a social status symbol.

I once heard a girl say that, "girls who sweat giant dicks are just girls who don't know what they really want in a man. They don't know their own sexuality but society has told them big dicks are the things they should want and thus they want big dicks."

Not to say there aren't girls who don't genuinely want monster cock or that there aren't guys whose taste genuinely and naturally are for the blonde, but I think there are a lot of dudes who sweat blonds because thats what they are supposed to sweat.

Me I like freckly redheads. Thats just my thing. I also like more wholesome looking girls over the super skank bleach blonde fake bake types.

1NV0K3R · 2015-10-20T14:48:53+00:00

Never gave a shit about blondes.

It was always the red heads matey. ALWAYS. THE. RED.

Fuck I was already red back in highschool and I didn't even know it.

ChanThunderwang · 2015-10-20T17:10:13+00:00

Personally I associate this yellow-blonde look with being trashy.

A hot 8/10 brown haired girl can go to 5/10 slut just by dying her hair.

TekkomanKingz · 2015-10-20T18:05:25+00:00

Agreed, never been interested in blondes.

Don't want something used up by everyone.

Okeseko · 2015-10-20T09:46:40+00:00

I really don't understand the appeal for blondes and blue eyes. For me is Ass (waist-hip ratio) > face > tits. Hair and eyes are ok no matter the color. I fucking hate fake hair and especially, fake tits.

GullyBanman · 2015-10-20T07:28:18+00:00

The post hits close to home for me and does line up with my experiences.

Growing up in an upper middle class neighborhood full of tons of shallow people (mostly white) and being raised by overbearing Indian parents was not a fun situation for me. I missed out on a lot of my adolescence because my parents went out of their way to stop me from playing sports and having much of a social life, add to that the fact that I was around a lot of shallow kids who were very judgmental. Blondes were the beauty standards without question and you could tell who the high value guy was just by seeing the hot blonde by his arm. Most of these girls would not even look at me and smile back in my high school days, that wasn't even the worst part.

A lot of the kid's moms (during school events and such) and even some of the teachers fit the cute blonde image, they would go out of their way to treat the high SMV high school kids well and treat everyone else like trash. Smiling at the high SMV guys while not even making eye contact with everyone else, these were women in adulthood btw. It was JUST blonde women doing this shit too, I rarely had a bad experience with a brunette or a woman that wasn't white even during those days. In a way, having to deal with that kind of shit from these same women (especially the teachers) made it easy for me to swallow the pill.

Changed my appearance overtime through lifting and style, saw the world for what it is, and just started to approach a lot more blondes to where I was comfortable with them. Was met with lots of rejections early on, hot blondes are indeed bitchier and more ruthless than other kinds of women. Overtime, I started having some decent experiences from these types of women who would smile at me, show more interest, and were actually nice to me at times but I do have the limiting beliefs about getting hot blondes due to my race/ethnicity. Fact of the matter is, I have never ever seen an Indian guy pull these kinds of women or have a lot of success with them so I think it can't be done at all.

I am more attracted to brunettes and a lot of non-white girls when it comes to sex but I actually want to score with the hot blonde type just to get it out of the way. Now I've been with a couple of Slavic blondes and some European ones but never the kinds of blondes you just described. It's something that has really been hurting my inner game and I would love help with it.

I still feel like these women hate me because of countless bad experiences I had with them growing up and I want to fuck some of them just to kinda get it over with. Even if I can't get one, just by seeing another Indian guy having success with the Hayden Panetierre and Stacy Keiblers of the world will be just as good because then I will know for a fact that my race isn't the main thing stopping me from having success with them.

gamefuck · 2015-10-20T12:23:09+00:00

I personally don't get the obsession with blondes. They are usually sluttier and more vapid then their counterparts and most of them are fake blonde anyway. They all look the same upside down anyway.

VodkaTankerSpill · 2015-10-20T20:57:38+00:00

Overanalyzing. Blond hair is a sign of youth and thus indication of fertility. Most blonds lose the full blond look once the wall hits which coincide with their quickly closing fertility window. That is why older women die into blond - to look younger than they are.

tomysotomayorfuxboys · 2015-10-20T03:15:47+00:00

I think you hit the nail on the head. Some guys like that Cali shooter kid, and George Sodini (the gym shooter from 5/6 years ago), want women for social validation more than sex.

Guys like that could just go and get a hot Russian mail order bride, or a girl from SE Asia. But they don't want to do that, because that is socially condemned. They want social validation instead of trying to make themselves happy on their own.

But I think it is something that has to do with personality. It has to do with the types of people they were, not just because they were geeks or whatever. A lot of guys who were geeks aren't like that.

tigerjaws · 2015-10-20T09:02:00+00:00

I was actually thinking about this earlier, within the last month. With all the talk about school shooters and all that, I was remembering Elliot Rodgers and tying to compare it to what's going on today. The thing is, your theory is on point. Elliot Rodger seemed to just be a lonely kid who was sad that he couldn't get laid. But it wasn't just that. He was rich as fuck. His dad is a producer. He drove a BMW. Had 300$ sunglasses. He could've easily found a golddigger whore or some shy homely asian girl (he went to UCSB and the entire UC system is flooded with asians). He wanted to fuck that hot slutty CC sorority girl because to him, that represented fucking the top bitch at the school. He wanted to be like his dad- (you read his manifesto) he wanted to be alpha. The blonde sorority slut represented social acceptance to him. It's the same way with women too, some of them just strive to find that 'Mr. Perfect'. They're hypergamous bullshit is just them trying to find that doctor or that guy with a nice house in the hills or the guy who will pamper her. Same shit. I see this shit all the time though, and we all have that thing that we want that represents some other bullshit.

David949 · 2015-10-20T04:43:54+00:00

I have to confess that I'm a white guy who grew up in Southern California. When I was younger I went for the Hispanic type. Got burned in marriage to one got divorced and then discovered game and TRP. Maybe I am trying to relive something but all I know is that blonds turn my head and get my dick hard. I have no idea why it's just the way I am wired. A very close second is redheads. It's so bad that if I see a brunette I immediately think next. If I see a two tone (bleached) I am out. Don't know why but I don't care. I know what gets my dick hard and that's all that matters to me. Helps narrow down the dating pool

Nice theory Op!

McLarenX · 2015-10-20T13:42:53+00:00

You're thinking too hard buddy.

My_Bad_Bruh · 2015-10-20T09:57:55+00:00

Regardless, small and petite blonde girls with fat asses are probably the funnest to fuck.

Title	Something I've noticed about guys that really like hot blondes and even have an obsession with getting them.
Author	Chadtheslayer
Upvotes	38
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Date	October 20, 2015 1:47 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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