I heard an interview on the radio last night of a girl who filmed a documentary about her experiences "Sugar Dating" and it was making me ill for a few reasons. (sorry I can't find the audio but here's an article about the doc.) [Montreal Gazette Article] (http://montrealgazette.com/health/sexual-health/cbc-documentary-sugar-sisters-explores-world-of-sugar-daddy-dating)
First thing that bothered me was just how sad it was to think of guys paying cash for dates. Not just spending money on gifts, trips etc. Cash allowances and/or "pay to play". About $100 per hour with no guarantee or contract for sex, because that would make them escorts. (Although they admit sex often happens if the girl cough "likes them enough"...ahem.)
The second thing that bothered me was how the hamster was working for this girl who was justifying being a low life hustler. Her defence was that these guys knew what they were getting and that she wasn't tricking anyone.
She said things like, "I was finally getting paid what I deserved for the emotional work that comes from going on a date". Also she says her friends, despite often having first date sex with guys who've paid them, are not escorts. (She never did. cough cough) She claimed that money made it easy to "ignore things that would normally end a date" Etc.
I was so angry at those dumb ass, blue pill dipshits for letting these hoochies run them. It made me feel sick to my stomach.
So I decided to hamster test my GF. Just to see what her female take on this would be. I told her about the whole thing and she was full of justifications too. She didn't see how anyone should feel bad for the men because they're not stupid and know what they're getting. So I said to her "But think how sad you'd feel if you learned a kid was paying others to be friends with him." That's a trick I use to try and get a woman to feel empathy for a man. A frame of mind I'm convinced women are incapable having and doesn't usually work but can often make a point stick. She conceded that it was pathetic but didn't feel sad for the guys in this case. That in fact the men were the cause of all this because they were a bunch of losers. The women had no blame. Interesting to note how she both saw the guys as stupid but not stupid at the same time.
My GF then gave me lots of instances of girls she'd known who had dated and even married guys they didn't like just because the men we're rich. Even one openly having an other man's kids while staying married. Her sugar daddy pays even for his wife plus a friend to fly back and visit the guy. Then the two of them go out and pick up club guys. I said, "you know that makes your friend a whore don't you?" She didn't agree of course.
What I learned /confirmed was this: *Women are always correct and will justify anything done to a man by a woman.
*Guys get the treatment we deserve. If she does wrong, it's your fault for letting her think she could get away with it.
*Women have zero guilt about taking advantage of a weak man and will proudly encourage others to do so also.
*The main reason my GF doesn't risk whoring around is because she knows I'd burn my shit down before I'd roll over and give her half.
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