I've been a long-time lurker of TRP and I've read a bunch of the posts on here; some are more insightful than others. One of the interesting things I look for in my interactions with women after finding this community is the shit-test. I've gotten them before, but having not really noticed them I paid them no heed in the past. Things are different now.

I've been dating for around 10 months or so - tinder has been treating me well - I've been on 15-20 or so dates in that time frame which is way more than normal for me (I've never really gone through a dating phase). Anyways, most of those girls had pretty terrible personalities. Best one thus far was last night.

We had a couple beers and grabbed some food - we had that awesome back-and-forth banter going to the point of our waitress commenting on how well things seemed to be going for a first date. We part ways and I get back to my place at the end of our rendezvous - couple texts saying we had a solid time with each other etc. I see if she'd be interested in a follow-up and she's down. Great.

I congratulate her on just being awarded a free tour of this neat place in our city (I have coupons for it) as a second date, and she responds with something along the lines of... "Awesome! Can I bring a date?!"

This seriously caught me off guard given how the evening was going before this. Obviously it was a humorous prod to see how I'd respond but it was by far the biggest shit test I've ever received but I recognized it immediately thanks to TRP. I responded with 'If you have multiple personalities, sure. Otherwise, you're putting up with my shit for another evening.'

Just had to share this because it really struck a chord with me - I've never gotten anything like that before from a woman. It was interesting to see in the real-world off the forum.

EDIT: Why the downvotes?