The Never Ending Test

jcromero · 2015-10-29T21:45:04+00:00

So the shit test, in abstract, is meant to test your leadership. And so with that said you have to consider the reason WHY one would want to test your leadership. Women shit test the most during two phases: initial attraction phase and when a relationship is on the rocks (i.e when they're unhappy).

RULE OF THUMB: Women typically like to be teased and subtly and not-so-subtly dominated, men like to be pleased and treated sweet with affection.

There is one distinct deviation that people need to be aware of. Some women will shit test mercilessly because they think it BUILDS attraction. They've literally confused GUY game with GIRL game. It comes off as extremely awkward at best, really rude at worst. These girls are either really clumsy or really broken. Be on alert for this new emerging type of female response.

Example: I once went on a date and this girl killed the mood by telling me about how she was fired, evicted from her apartment, and was kicked out of school all in the same week. I'm sure she could sense the attraction slipping fast. Her solution: While I went to the bathroom she invited two strangers (both men) to sit at our table and join us on our date. It was a nuclear shit test and a total breach of common courtesy. I left immediately and never returned her (many) calls.

david_kimba · 2015-10-30T10:14:42+00:00

Women/others do not have shit on my demons. My demons are always preying inside of me and sleeping with half an eye open. They are ruthless and unforgiving, they test my resolve every waking second. It's solely my responsibility to keep them in check and get to know them.

But my demons are my most loyal companions, they will not forgive me if i break my word, they will tear me apart if i become weak and they will not accept defeat untill i outgrow them. And even then, i am not sure you can really kill them completely. They evolve with you and manifest in other ways.

Your demons should be the culprit of your strengths. Your demons have been molding you into what you are ever since you came out of the uterus. You have been living with your fear, your self hate, your indecision, your weak resolve since you became conscious. You have fed them and you have starved them, you have lost some battles you have won many others, this is not a fight that simply ends, this a constant state of balance.

A shit test is nothing more than attempt to rattle the cage and take a look at them. No one but you should be able to sever the chains and free them. Your demons are none of their business. Know yourself and really get to know your dark side. It is beautiful.

adam-l · 2015-10-30T06:58:03+00:00

"Yes" - "No" - "Maybe".

Women need around 7 milliseconds to classify you in one of those three categories. If you are being shit-tested, you are in the "maybe" category. You can oblige to address her shit tests in pursuit of a lay. Just make a mental note never to enter into a LTR with that girl.

edit: spelling. thanx benzo;)

favours_of_the_moon · 2015-10-29T21:57:12+00:00

My test for her is if she sucks a good dick.

[deleted] · 2015-10-30T19:07:52+00:00

When I'm on a first or second date with a girl, and the shit tests are getting to the point that I am losing the energy to combat them, one of my recent go to responses has been just laughing at whatever bullshit they say/ask and just staring them dead in the eye without giving them any response. Preferably while I take a drink, so they think I just might say something when I'm done drinking. Then when I set the glass down, continue smirk stare, and don't say a thing.

They will generally break the silence with something like "Well?" or "I guess that's a no/yes" if it was a question. I just respond with something like "Well what do you think?", "Believe what you will", or "No comment." If it was some kind of neg they threw at you, your smirk and stare will get their hamster running on overdrive. You really didn't even address whatever it is they said here, but you have completely flipped the situation back around on them and they will surely try to hamster their way out of it and it's cute as hell.

That's really all you have to do is show that you are happy and unaffected. You don't have to say a damn thing if you don't want. Ignore it, change subject. Just don't let it look like she phased you. AKA holding frame.

Side note: I once had a girl just stare back at me for a good 20 seconds without saying a word. 20 seconds is a pretty long fucking time to have a stare-off, and it felt like an eternity, but when she finally broke the stare, it was absolutely game over for the rest of the night. She had surrendered.

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FrameWalker · 2015-10-30T17:53:18+00:00

Don't fear the shit test. It's an opportunity to showcase your masculinity. Show her your confidence and self mastery. Some girls are a royal pain sure, but many love being trained. You can go from rolling eyes and snarky remarks to yes sir and daddy please give me more.

jnsu_ · 2015-10-30T19:53:06+00:00

if an ltr would start doing this would that means she cheated and is trying to break my frame/make me the bad guy for loosing frame so she can leave not guilty and blame it on me? I'm in a situation like this

kez88 · 2015-10-30T00:06:30+00:00

Shit tests really aren't a bad thing. You want her to be shit testing you. It means shes trying to see what you're really like, and whether you'd be a good mate with her. Know who she doesn't shit test? The beta at the bar who she hasn't even noticed, her oribiters and other guys shes never ever going to fuck. Welcome the shit tests, pass them, and then bang her brains out

Title	The Never Ending Test
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Date	October 29, 2015 8:23 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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