First time poster. Lurked for 9 months. Thank you TRP. Thank you hard work.

Just another instance of how girls view "nice guys". I'll keep it short.

Background:

Me (22) and plate (18) have a chill/good friends/master+mistress kind of relationship. This hb6 goes to my old university. I am in another for grad school. I'm practicing an AF/BB balance on her that some here may call "alpha provider". It's been 6 months. She knows I'll never date her.

Story:

Earlier this week, plate messages me wondering if she should go on a date with an upper year that asked her to dinner. Being that he's paying, I tell her to go for it. Free food. Why not.

He picks her up, pays for a steak dinner, pays for a movie+popcorn (details, brothers), drives her home, all while putting in maximal effort to cater to her needs. What does he get after spending $60 on her? An awkward high 5 + an awkward hug after he asked "why not a hug?". -momentary cringe-

She gets home and begins telling me about how great the things he gave her were but how he was "boring" and "too nice". Then starts calling me an "asshole" for always making her buy things for me and never the opposite.

Me: "so you want me to dry your vag up like he did?" Her: "it's different... I know what you can do but he just seemed bad at sex" Me: "bring food Wednesday" Her: "what do you want?"

Plate not only found this stereotypical BB to be overall unattractive, but went as far as assuming "he's bad at sex". This is coming from an 18yo who has had only 1 dick in her life. It's built into them as females. Their senses tell them a guy that nice can't possibly deliver rough sex.

Overall, to those new here due to breakup season (September/back to school/when unicorn meets chad at university), here's a friendly reminder of what not to do. If you really must be nice, balance it with some asshole. Never go full nice guy. To those who frequent TRP, cheers to another one.

Edit: It appears that by me keeping this short, some seemingly important details have been left out. I'm still improving my story telling. So if it means anything:

1- yes I popped her cherry, she's weirdly conservative I guess due to her upbringing, culture, and being semi-religious? etc., an anomaly perhaps, a pre-fuck-everyone phase perhaps. Do I believe her? Sure why not, she's obedient. If she's lying, still doesn't matter, I'm just here to smash.

2- she asked for a relationship before. Told her I'm never going to date her, she can leave if she wants, she told me to forget she asked.

3- if the dude that fed her were to be capable of snagging her then props to him for being capable, I'm just here to have fun tbh not to protect a plate.

4- told her I'm fucking other girls so she should see other guys if she wants a relationship. Proposed to use me as a comparison for traits she likes/doesn't in me for selecting her prospects.

Hope I didn't miss anything, cheers!