The Watercooler #4: Everyday Alpha

waze92 · 2013-07-22T17:06:39+00:00

Quick background: 21, at university, have been lifting for over a year and am seeing serious results, and have been reading up on game/TRP and developing it in a huge way...life is great.

Anyway, so I'm back from University for the summer, and went over for a BBQ at my parents' friend's house. There were 4 or 5 married couples, all long time friends with my parents, most of whom I haven't seen in a couple of years, but have known fairly well my whole life.

Was wearing a well fitted shirt and smart jeans and shoes, and on seeing me for the first time in years all the wives' eyes lit up. Got told by each of them on separate occasions throughout the night how good I looked and how much I'd grown up/filled out. One of them, who is still quite hot for her age and whose husband is pretty beta, was all over me...as much as she could be at a small BBQ with her husband and friends anyway. "So have you got a girlfriend?", "Have you been working out?", strong eye contact, hair touching, touching my knee A LOT. Also, the hosts have an 18yr old son who I know well, a good friend but quite beta - he had his girlfriend round, who I met for the first time that night. Again, so many signs she was into me, kept catching at her looking at me, playing with her hair so obviously, feet pointed at me the whole time. Not gonna do anything as her boyfriend is a good mate, and abundance mentality and all that, but I so easily could.

Felt so good to have TRP validated in a big way the whole night, by people from my former blue pill days. Thanks a lot guys.

projectself · 2013-07-22T20:56:45+00:00

Had a date planned last Thursday, a painting class of sorts where you bring your wine or beer and the teacher goes through a painting with about 20 people and at the end you get to take your painting home.

Victoria cancels on me about noon, so I send a text to another girl, call her Jennifer. I tell her I have something gun planned and to be at my house at 5:30. I call the place and ask them to update the reservation with Jenns name.

We get there and they did not. Not only during sign in they called her victoria, but at our table the name victoria was written in chalk. A few minutes later she asks did "she cancel" or did I change my mind. I told her she canceled but that we were not going to let that awkward lil thing mess up our evening. She agrees and the night goes well. Later at night she brings it up that she had fun but wishes I had picked it for her and not let her be second. I walked away and went to check my phone and found a bathroom. When I came back she was over it.

The next night I am out playing darts and get a text from her around midnight... I need you.. ok, she was at a bar close to my house so I tell her I am headed that way. I get there and buy a beer and sit down. She leads in with "you humiliated me last night" .. I put my beer down. Put 5 dollars down in front of me and tell her sorry you feel that way and get up and walk out the door.

Next day she texts me she is coming over .. (I work from home). She shows up with lunch and over lunch she tells me she cried at the bar for 30 minutes.. I just ignore it. 10 minutes later I get a blowjob on the couch.

2013-07-23T00:08:29+00:00

Funny story here.

Went to a party on saturday, my buddy (lets call him X) was talking to this chick for an hour, and she says she needs to use the toilet. So he goes out to the BBQ and starts messing around. Half an hour later, her friend comes out and tells X that her friend really likes him and wants to talk more upstairs. She takes my buddy into the bedroom to find this chick getting plowed by another one of my friends. LOL.

Fuckin skanks ~

Bossmandom · 2013-07-22T18:01:53+00:00

I was at a bar and there was a set 2 girls 1 guy.

The girls were wearing matching tie dye dresses so I ask them about it as my opener.

I don't really remember the exact words, but to summarize they had just come from some gay support group party, explaining the rainbow colors. I then ask if they are lesbians. They say no, they just were showing "love" to friends or something. Ok whatever, I say something I don't recall and one of the girls decides to be irritated with me. Don't know why, just like any other shit test. The thing is I completely kept my own frame. I didn't feed off her emotion (I didn't even acknowledge it actually), I stayed firm with my own (calm/relaxed) and without evening having to say anything too clever or funny she fed off my frame and calmed back down to pleasant.

One of my sticking points in the past and probably now is that I let myself lose my frame sometimes when I get annoyed by something. So I have been trying to focus on that.

I fully think that it was my frame and body language that accomplished this, not the words I chose. But for posterity, I said that I was just wanted clarity on what she meant to love. The word "love" means so many things we could split it into twenty things. I was like "so when you say love, do you mean love 3 or love 15?" and it became like a running joke a little bit. They were amused. They obviously have a lot of different versions of love floating around in their own heads. Red pill in action.

artappel7 · 2013-07-22T19:18:49+00:00

Had a horrible beta relationship for 6 years. Started reading RP a couple of months ago. Met, flirted and banged the first girl since said relationship. It's been an amazing couple of days of fucking her, everywhere.

Have been noticing shit tests and passing them from the get-go. Best RP advice I've been using is for texting. When she gives me shit over something irrational over text, I just ignore it. The sorry text appears soon enough.

Still a lot to learn, but it's been an eye opener to see the things I've picked up working in the real world. Thx guys.

2013-07-22T21:27:32+00:00

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2013-07-23T14:46:39+00:00

My goal for the last 10 days or so has been one thing: experiment with eye contact. I've always looked away first, but I've made a conscious effort to just hold eye contact until they break, it's been a very interesting few weeks, particularly on the street. This whole exercise has been to iron out areas that display lack of confidence and it's worked brilliantly.

I've had 9 initiations ending in either a kiss or a number simply because I held eye contact longer than them, then either blew them a kiss or stuck my tongue out when they glanced back.

Biggest mediocre success story of the week: Saw a ridiculously fit girl sat on a bus, we made eye contact so I winked and gave her a big grin, she smiled back. The bus stopped at some red lights about 10 yards up, so I tapped on the window and asked for her number. She laughed at me and gave it to me through the open window. Pretty funny, but I've been applying the "don't give a fuck" attitude to various aspects one at a time.

My favourite interaction during this experiment went something like this:

Hot girl and I make eye contact, she holds as we walk towards each other on the street and I give her a cheeky smile. She's an 8/10, blonde, hourglass figure and wearing very little makeup. Has that kind of posh country girl look about her.

Hot girl: "What are you looking at?"

me: "4/10 on a good day"

hot girl: speechless

me: "put your number in my phone"

Amazingly, it actually worked.

I bumped in to her again after my shopping trip, told her to stop stalking me and then took her straight to a bar for a drink. You couldn't make this shit up.

TL;DR - eye contact is definitely a useful tool.

RedSunBlue · 2013-07-22T15:08:37+00:00

This weekend, in honor of /u/TofuTofu, I decided to see how many wymen I could get away with (playfully) sexually harassing.

While talking to two sisters at a house party, I used my plastic fork to discretely lift up one's skirt while talking to the other.
As I was saying goodbye to another girl, I gave her a firm, open-handed slap on the tuckus as I walked away.
At the beach, I dropped a piece of ice down the back of some lizard's bikini.

This all only occurred after they swolested me first. Laughs were had by all. Phone numbers were exchanged.

dre_day4 · 2013-07-22T22:08:17+00:00

Been working on eye contact and am talking to a lot more strangers now and notice all sorts of people eye fuck me. I'm also working on leadership skills and more oppurtunities come my way. Today I learnt several girls at work like me, some drama will probably ensue but I dont play that game.

Bossmandom · 2013-07-22T16:58:20+00:00

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sushisection · 2013-07-22T22:46:01+00:00

Got free Chipotle!!!

This Chipotle is right next to my workplace, so I go often enough for the workers to recognize me. Anyways, there is this butch lesbian who works the cash register. I complimented her Mohawk haircut and she comped my meal hahaha

Usherai · 2013-07-24T05:59:16+00:00

So last week I had a drinks date with a girl from okcupid. She was barely in the bangable range from her pics, and I get there and she's ~70lbs heavier: Secret internet fattie. I decided to have a couple drinks just to see what would happen. She rambled on about her long carousel ride while making really sad attempts at dhvs. She was 31, which is way older than I normally work with, so this has been my first time really seeing how pathetic older women can be. It's sad. I'm not even mad about the time wasted to meet her, or that her pics were so inaccurate. It was really just so pathetic that I just felt bad for her.

I've got another date lined up with a 32 yo chick who's skinny in her pictures (They both opened me). I actually have hopes for this girl because she (at least says) she doesn't even have a cell phone. We'll see.

TerrorTanuki · 2013-07-22T17:45:45+00:00

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Title	The Watercooler #4: Everyday Alpha
Author	RedSunBlue
Upvotes	31
Comments	72
Date	July 22, 2013 3:00 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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