Before you think this is going to be about something romantic and wonderful, have you been to this sub? I'm writing a simple post about the most important three words you can use in any relationship, dating or otherwise to establish a dynamic, make women want you and have the best time you'll ever have:

I'll Handle It.

This is the automatic answer to things like making plans, being asked to help with something by an LTR, or any other scenario where it is required that a decision be made and action be taken.

There are major benefits to using these three little words. First of all, whatever is getting done is getting done by you, under your control. Therefore whatever restaurant you want to eat at, colour you want to paint the walls or activity you want to do the woman is simply along for the ride and will enjoy it. They will also appreciate the fact that they didn't have to make a decision. You're taking a leadership role in the relationship and are assuming the captain dynamic.

In a work situation it shows leadership, the ability to work independently and any boss or manager will highly appreciate that they don't have to keep an eye on you or your work.

Of course, the other component of this is once you tell people you're going to handle it - actually handle it. Over promising and not delivering once an expectation is established is suicide in pretty much any situation. And you have just destroyed any credibility you might have had in establishing your authority.

Comments and additions welcome. If there are a better three words that you can think of, fire away.