Too many times I've seen it. A guy says, "what am I doing wrong?" Well, no fear, Pragmatic's here.

If you're not with a girl, don't talk to her. This means no fucking texting. Why? Because you blend in with the other lames. Girls don't have our problem, remember? They get approached... 80% of the time, even when a girl wants my dick (even when it's written on her face.) she will wait and wait until you do it. WHY? Because they're terrified of rejection, because biology and evolution say so. You are the one with the burden.

So, with this said, do not text her when you're not with her. This is for logistics only, not love notes and poems. If she is hitting you up, or if she is sending you nudes... Answer cool, ok, yes, no, and do it rarely if at all.

Do NOT be afraid of her getting attention or walking away, let her. You do not need her. Let her go, bye bye. Do not feed into her bullshit and lose frame by replying. You cannot seduce someone properly over text. If you can, the attraction won't last long, and it won't be intense. You do this in person.

So this leads me to my point;

When she texts you, STOP! Stop. Stop. Stop.

Think to yourself, how would a hot chick who doesn't want to give me the time of day treat me? How would she?

Do not say this hasn't happened to you. Somewhere in this world, a hot chick that you were stunned by, didn't even give you a look on the train, in traffic, or the supermarket. It's happened... if it hasn't, get off this website please.

I consider myself extremely high SMV, and I am young, and this has happened to me tons of times.

So what do you do? When building attraction, and when you first meet her, you should in a lot of ways treat her like that super hot ten treated you. Why? Because she has every guy barking at her, and she is getting disgusted by it. But not you, you're the guy who could give two fucks if you ever see her again... And you're going to treat her like you're too good for her, because she needs to know this.

She isn't a ten, she's another girl... And she's going to find that out real quick when you stop and ask yourself how she should be treated; in an aloof manor, because she isn't a big deal to you.

Remember, a large part of game is separating yourself from the lames. You get a picture of a dead serious ass shot, right? Thing is so good you would eat off of it... You ask yourself, have I seen a better one? And the answer might be, "no that's the best ass I have ever seen."

But you reply, "nice."

Or not at all.

You get in person, you pull that ass out of the yoga pants... It is amazing, best ass you have ever wrapped your palms around. But you slap it and move on. Because it isn't a big deal, and she needs to know it.

She isn't a big deal. Don't feed her. Don't give her much. Don't act impressed. Keep it cool and collected, and she will try harder than she ever has to prove she is a big deal.