On your way to building your "rotation", you may want to keep some things in mind if you have the fear of approaching women:

  • Treat it like working out. Warm up and building daily momentum. By saying hello to 10 women a day is better than not approaching at all because those greetings are warm-ups if you have a fear of talking to women.
  • Watch videos on rejection to get your mind into a state of handling it. Rejection sucks, but it's better than bitching out. I was out yesterday and approached one girl, but bitched out asking for her number. Another girl I thought was cute was at a Walmart 20 minutes from where I live. She's an employee. I saw her in one of the aisles and circled back to talk to her, but bitched out to hold a conversation and try to get her number. Two bitch-outs in one day gave me a reflective moment. I didn't build momentum and approach women without trying to get number for a couple of days or a couple of weeks. Being that I'm gonna be doing direct approaching, I need to build a lot of momentum because if direct approaching were weight lifting, it would be your heavy set. Get rejected, don't bitch out because rejection is success (you took action) and bitching out is failure to take action.
  • Carry around a pocket notepad for accountability purposes. If you see a cute girl, approach her and say something. You can warm up by smiling and greeting her. Write the date. If you see a girl you want to approach (she has to be attractive enough to kiss or fuck), and you approach her, you don't have to mark anything down. If you don't approach because you bitched-out, mark a "B" by the date. If you got rejected after you approached (asked for her number, tried to kiss close, etc), mark an "R" by the date. The goal is to have more "R's" than "B's". If you're getting a lot of B's, assess the situation. Are you stuck in your head? Do you feel unnatural and uncomfortable? This is a sign you need to relax and warm your way up to trying to get numbers, dates, and lays.
  • Get out of your head. When I bitched-out, I was stuck in my head. Why? I focused on being direct too soon. You need to treat it like a heavy set and warm up a bit. Maybe get a few indirect approaches just to get in the mindset of talking to women and feeling things out. Approaching women is an emotional thing, not a logical thing. You logically know that it's better to get rejected than bitch-out because you take action when you get rejected, but emotionally, you want to protect your ego. You know the reasons why you don't want to get rejected. So focus on becoming emotionally stronger. Just like becoming physically stronger you need to workout, the same goes emotionally. Get out of your head and into your body. I highly recommend watching videos with Brian Begin of The Fearless Man Youtube channel.
  • You don't have to get 1,000 approaches or rejection in a year by sticking to a specific number. Don't approach unattractive women and get their number just because there aren't any cute chicks around. You may get those approach or rejection numbers over a 2-year period or a 3-year period. Unattractive women are warm-up approaches to gain momentum. Same thing with old women and women with children. Be social without trying to get their number or anything like that. When that cute chicks (attractive enough to kiss or fuck) come along, you'll be warmed up to try and get their number or set up a date. Don't think about it and just approach her. Be natural. If you've been talking to like 10 women all day long, you might automatically approach the cute girl because you're just FEELING the momentum. You might even be more aware of certain nuances like she might be giving you subtle choosing signals. When you're stuck in your head, you miss shit like that. Forget about approaching a certain amount of women or try to close a bunch of women and just approach. The more natural you feel, the more success you'll have. Side note: Getting rejected is a success because you took action and tried to close. If you approached 1,000 women with a 0.5% success rate, you would have 5 women in your rotation.
  • Have fun. Talking to women is actually fun and enjoyable. I know that you hear a lot of bad thing about female nature, but when you approach a lot of women, you're gonna experience the Alpha Fucks side of hypergamy. Here's how:

Let's say you got approached 2,000 women in a 1-year period. Let's say you had a 3% success rate. Low, but these were direct approaches and your goal was to have an FWB relationship with all these women. Let's do some math (2,000 X 3% = 60 FWB's). I don't know about you, but I don't think even athletes and entertainers have a rotation this strong. They have to resort to tricking their money off and hire escorts and porn chicks to have sex with them. A lot of these guys are married to women who are doing it for Beta Buck reasons or for branding purposes. Meanwhile, you could have sex everyday for 2 months if you wanted to.

Another thing about being on the Alpha Fucks side of hypergamy is you'll have women choosing up on you because you'll start looking like a guy who gets a lot of pussy. Your whole demeanor is gonna change. To women, you'll give off a sexier vibe. Women can tell when a guy is getting a lot of pussy in how comfortable he interacts with them. He doesn't feel the need to entertain, but yet he's very entertaining.

  • You can still be on your purpose. You may notice that you're out and about more than before. You may be running errands more and bumping into more women. You may see cute women and talk to them after you come from the gym. You may be on your way to apply for a business loan, and the loan officer is a cute chick who just started working there. You may be out eating with friends and you see a couple of cute chicks giving you choosing signals. Being that your momentum is really high, because you're approaching women everyday, you go up and talk to them without giving it a second thought. All while getting the important shit done and spending time with people you care about.

What are your thoughts?