"While everyone condemns sexual assault, there seems to be an assumption among female students that they shouldn’t have to protect themselves by avoiding drunkenness and other risky behaviors, he said."

FortunateBum · 2014-08-21T18:43:14+00:00

Typical female response.

Woman: Here is the problem: Rape.

Man: Here's how you solve that problem: ...

Woman: BLAMING THE VICTIM!

Man: Don't you want to solve the problem?

Woman: I want society to solve the problem for me. I have a VAGINA!

Man: Uh... ok.

Concord_Fight · 2014-08-21T20:05:13+00:00

They wear the slutty clothing and get drunk so they can attract the attention of alpha males. When they start getting the attention of the beta males, that's when they start worrying about sexual assault and rape culture. The betas are sexually interested in them, and that makes them uncomfortable. Then maybe they get so drunk that they actually hook up with a beta. The sober up, are ashamed, and blame him for their actions.

Men don't have these "rape culture" issues because they'd fuck the girl sober or drunk. Female privilege is not being demonized for your sexuality just because you're not in the top 20% of men.

lemonparty · 2014-08-21T17:40:51+00:00

I've said the same thing before. Its a crime for someone to break into your house. But don't expect it not to happen if you leave your doors and windows unlocked. There are nasty people out there. If you wanna minimize your risk of being victimized by them then take the necessary precautions. Don't keep bitching about the fact that they exist and do the things they do. But how dare you suggest that women should take responsibility for themselves...mysoginists!

TheSKSpecial · 2014-08-21T17:31:55+00:00

While this is common sense to anyone with a functioning brain and any capability for rational thought, it violates the "men must never suggest women take some responsibility for their actions" tenet of feminism.

Thus, this man is an evil misogynist victim-blaming shitlord who hates women.

IAmTheIlluminatiAMA · 2014-08-21T17:10:20+00:00

Let's go to nature. I guess water buffalo should just be free to drink wherever they want. We will just tell the alligators to stop eating them. Nevermind they're not always going to run into an alligator. Most of the time they go to drink they will be fine. This makes it OK for a water buffalo to take no steps to look out for alligators.

FusionPhysics · 2014-08-21T19:58:17+00:00

Flip the genders in the typical scenario of "rape". Let's say I, a straight male, go to a gay bar. I get drunk, grind my ass on all kinds of gay dudes all night. At the end of the night, one guy asks me to go home with him. I say yes. He fucks me, and I claim rape. Who in the world would say that this is his fault? No! Nobody would consider this legitimate rape.

TattedGuyser · 2014-08-21T23:19:38+00:00

“Among the people I hang out with, there’s more hesitancy to hook up with someone when there’s alcohol involved,” Sandoval, 21, said. “Something that you might have thought would be okay when you were drunk might not be okay later on. ”

This is just sad... They are teaching men that it's ok for a woman to sleep with you and then claim rape after the fact because they might regret it. This is just disgusting.

More campuses are adopting bystander education programs that seek to recruit men in stopping sexual assault, said Jackson Katz, co-founder of MVP Strategies, which offers violence prevention programs for schools and the U.S. military.

And here they have a campus sponsored white knight program. Just absolute bullshit. There is so little agency with these women that the campus is training men to be white knights to care for them. College has basically become adult babysitting.

forbinsdecline · 2014-08-21T23:52:49+00:00

"This is the only crime where people blame the victim,” said Annie E. Clark, co-founder of End Rape on Campus

What?!? That statement is so incredibly false I don't even know if she can believe it herself.

chairmobile · 2014-08-22T01:44:22+00:00

I go to a UC. I've essentially written off college sex. Not worth losing my degree over.

TheLargeCactus · 2014-08-22T02:50:17+00:00

The title is exactly right. We punish drunk driver's because they should know not to act fucking stupid and try to drive after drinking but then our society does a 180 when it comes to sexual assault. Suddenly a drunk person is not responsible if they consent to sex while drunk, it becomes an act of "taking advantage of someone." If your dumb ass doesn't want to regret what you did drunkenly on the night before then you shouldn't have gone and gotten drunk in the first place.

[deleted] · 2014-08-21T21:29:27+00:00

If woman are naturally equal to men then why do they need a bunch of laws and artificial rules and privileges to make them so?

RollnOnLife · 2014-08-21T16:24:16+00:00

What more important. Finishing education, or going through trials to see if you BB material?

Remember that saying "just because you can, doesn't mean you should"

Think of this when you see a wasted female trying to get in your pants. Especially at a college where almost her whole life is her current clique.

raceAround126 · 2014-08-22T12:35:11+00:00

I like girls dressing provocatively.

It says, "I'm likely up for it."

After some practice, you can gauge which ones are actually up for it and those that are just cock teasers. The latter I laugh at and walk away. A few came back later on offering themselves on a plate.

One word, selfie! Women love that shit and there is no better evidence that says a girl was there willingly than a selfie. Wipes rape criers right out of the room. Not infallable under a real world test I'm sure, but better than you vs her tears and a police report.

Fact is, men are almost afraid of sex these days. I never considered I would ever need more than a condom for safe sex. When you now need to add espionage into the equation, its like a dice with death.

I take particular offence to these rape criers. I honestly feel if they cry rape and are later found out, they should be imprisoned. My cousin was actually raped. Not got drunk and regretted it rape, as in, she was bundled into her car after work one night and was violently beaten the shit out of. It angers me when these fucking cunts have the audacity to peer through their fuck-ugly large rimmed glasses and claim this shit. It makes my blood absolutely boil they are so flippant with it when ten years after the event my cousin is still bearing thr mental scars from what she had.

In fact... Cry rape and its not true? You should actually be raped as punishment! I feel that strongly about it.

Petrarch1603 · 2014-08-22T19:53:01+00:00

When you're walking thru a dangerous neighborhood at night and need to stop by 7-11, you don't by your gatorade with a hundred dollar bill.

Schickie · 2014-08-22T03:34:06+00:00

Gentlemen,

As a long time practitioner and advocate of TRP.

Grow the fuck up.

Take responsibility for the fact that if you fuck a drunk girl she could very well recant. It's just a fact. You have no power in that situation so why stick your dick into trouble. Life's unfair, grow a pair you fucking children.

Every person here who justifies an illegal act because it's easy or convenient to commit should grip tightly your ears and pull your head out of your ass because it's quite possibly the dumbest thing you could ever say and makes you sound like a jilted neanderthal.

You complain about women not using common sense. Here's a tip from someone who got laid plenty in college and since without incident. It's very, very simple.

DONT FUCK DRUNK GIRLS YOU AREN'T DATING.

DON'T FUCK WOMEN YOU DON'T KNOW OR CAN'T TRUST.

DON'T BLAME THE CHICK BECAUSE YOU CAN'T CONTROL YOUR DICK.

Your lack of frame is an embarrassment.

Wheatspin · 2014-08-22T02:43:52+00:00

You know what, sometimes it literally is the victim's fault. I'm sick of the "you're blaming the victim! how insensitive, it's not their fault, etc etc" bullshit. If I roll up in blood territory alone dressed like a crip, it's my fucking fault if I get shot to death. They pulled the trigger, yeah, but that's common fucking sense that you don't do that and not expect consequence.

UNLESS YOU'RE A WOMAN. If you're a woman and you're going to get shitfaced at a frat house, the place that's responsible for the negative perceptions of how college women are treated, you should understand that you are putting yourself at risk. And they do. Every single one of them does. But they don't care because they want to have their cake and eat it to. All reward with no risk.

For example: I know someone who went to a school that literally had a "rape frat" as in everyone who went there called it that. That was it's nickname, "the rape frat." If I had to estimate, ~5 rape claims came out of that place yearly. And still, despite the obvious risk, women would go every weekend for their booze and free social status boosts.

It absolutely fucking blows my mind that people can be so devoid of the concept of consequence like that. Women's brains work so differently from ours it's almost like they're an entirely different species.

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