Why does her partner count matter? The one thing I don't fully understand about TRP.

OsoFeo · 2014-06-06T05:19:30+00:00

Had to google around so this may not be the best citation, but here's why.

HAMMURABl · 2014-06-06T05:28:29+00:00

and would really appreciate a thorough explanation on this "slutty" issue

no one forces you to believe this part. we can only warn everyone. if you don't believe her number matters, thats perfectly fine. just don't say you weren't warned when the shit hits the fan.

ringydingy · 2014-06-06T05:30:48+00:00

Because if the pussy was worth keeping, she wouldn't be being tossed around like a beach ball at a concert.

Subtletorious · 2014-06-06T07:47:03+00:00

It is not the number, it is why is the number that high?

To use an analogy, a potential new employee has been employed 100 times with employment ranging from 1 day to 1 month. Does this applicant have work ethic and commitment issues?

bleh321 · 2014-06-06T05:36:51+00:00

It's in our hindbrains aka our biologically set impulses.

Why do we naturally feel jealousy? A high count simply does not represent a worthy LTR due to the high risks involved.

monsieurhire2 · 2014-06-06T04:54:15+00:00

I agree with a lot of what you say, but also, take into consideration that many guys are concerned that a girl with a high partner count will get bored at some point, cheat on them, or blame their ennui on them and divorce rape them. I think this can happen with any woman though, regardless of partner count, if the guy doesn't know TRP. Statistically, it is supposedly more likely that high partner count women have these issues. High partner count men have them too. Leopards don't change their spots. I myself would prefer a serial monogamist.

LastRevision · 2014-06-06T06:49:52+00:00

I met a girl last year who told me she used to be a big slut but now she learned and grew and was older and wiser and didn't make bad choices like that anymore. It was just chatting on OKC, but I never messaged her again.

a girl with a high partner count who makes you "wait" views you as a chump.
a girl with a high partner count who fucks you immediately reduces you to a statistic
a girl with a high partner count has likely "seen everything" and has been alpha widowed a few times over, which is baggage you don't want
a girl with a high partner count will likely have a blown up ego, yes even if she's fat, because she will never interpret her actions as providing an easy source of friction for someone

Partner counts have gotten outrageous for your average post college-age girl; i recommend 18-21 year olds.

SariaLystra · 2014-06-06T08:55:29+00:00

Google "the art of whore". In short, the number in and of itself doesn't mean much. But the implications are far worse. If you're not swayed by the statistics already mentioned, think of it like this: every guy she was with deemed her unworthy of a long term relationship, even though she offered her vagina to them. You can argue that she doesn't value sex as much (which would beg the question as to why she was selective) but nevertheless she is the common thread among those relationships.

So the more partners you have, the more you show that you yourself are unfit for a relationship, especially if those relationships are sexual. You can spin it into "oh I have learned so much" but again, if the 60 guys you fucked thought you weren't real girlfriend material, why should the next guy?

exit_sandman · 2014-06-06T09:05:39+00:00

Apart from the usual issues (higher risk of divorce, STDs, lower fertility, alpha widowism etc.) I want to throw something different in the mix: Lack of (good) experiences with that kind of woman.

Don't forget that quite a bunch of guys here presumably are recovering betas (or worse), guys that were held at arm's length by women during their teens and 20s. While this may have been somewhat tolerable if the women in question weren't what you'd call "easy girls", it certainly breeds contempt if they weren't really hard to get - for others (aka "riding the carousel"). And now imagine that that kind of woman suddenly starts hitting on you at a point in your life when you begin to earn good money - wouldn't you double-guess their motivations, too? Bonus points if they're over a certain age and their looks begin to fade, and even more bonus points if they deny you stuff you either know they did in the past or (worse) you get to know later by chance, even though she tried to recreate herself in the image of a "proper lady" - whether that's putting out early instead of making you jump through loops, being experimenting ("I'm not like that anymore") and so on.

It's one thing if you're 21 yourself and never had these problems, but for guys who had, this becomes a lot more important prior to stage 5.

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Exactly_what_I_think · 2014-06-06T06:06:38+00:00

Men love sluts not a slut.

Outside a LTR or an attempt it dose not matter.

Title	Why does her partner count matter? The one thing I don't fully understand about TRP.
Author	ClarityOfLife
Upvotes	1
Comments	41
Date	June 6, 2014 4:46 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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