Introduction:

There are many things in life that we often don't question. Not out of fear, but because the thought never crosses our minds. Things that have been around in society for thousands of years, or ever since you could remember. Your parents did it, your peers do it, the media romanticizes it, people talk about it all the time with great anticipation, you are told about it from k-12 and your four years as an undergrad. It's a constant. It's just what you do. It just is... Why bother analyzing it? This is normal. This is natural. If it doesn't work out, it's not the activity that's the problem, it's that you must have gone about it wrong. To bother questioning it would be a waste of time because there's nothing to answer.

I come to tell you that marriage is one of those things. We've all heard it before. You get good grades in high school so you can attend a prestigious college. Then you graduate and look for a steady job as an employee at a company. Next, you find a woman to settle down with, buy a 3 month's salary's worth diamond engagement ring and propose. After that, you purchase a home in the suburbs signed in both of your names and move in together. You buy a vehicle for each of you, making sure one of them can fit the kids-to-come easily. Finally, you purchase a wedding ring, get married, and have children. The cycle repeats.

All the topics covered from the Red Pill can be derived from one simple philosophy, \"I come first\"-- What's in it for me? How do I benefit from this particular action? Will I get a return on my investment of time, energy, and effort? Do I feel like doing this now? Will it bring happiness into my life? Will it improve my circumstances? If I do this, can I retain my self-respect? For a variety of legal, personal, and sexual dynamic reasons, I say no. In these posts, I will explain why and hope to get your input on my reasoning, your perspective on the issue, and have you questioning the status quo.

Part 2

If you wish to continue this series, read [\"Why Get Married? (Part 2: Definition & Historical Context)\"]

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