So you meet this awesome girl, use your game to bed her, and even manage to have a decent time just hanging out. Your mind starts to wander- "where could this go?" "Could she be my girlfriend?". Stop that shit. Before you ask yourself those questions, ask yourself what has she done to earn anything more than plate status. Remember, she's getting the same benefits as you are- great sex, a night out, and good company. The difference is, we are the engine and they are the caboose. I could be going a lot faster without the added weight. If I'm transporting some valuable goods, then the possibility of this ride being worth it exists. Many times that caboose is empty as fuck- it's just new, enjoying a free ride.

I've caught myself in the past, wishing that this girl would do x,y,z, so I could take her seriously. The things they say sound great. "This is amazing, being here with you" "omg, you're the best" "nobody has fucked me like that before!"... It can easily cloud your judgment. But if she couldn't talk, what would she actually DO to tell me these things?

We work hard to elevate our business, to get a raise or a promotion, and to stay in shape. If she's not willing to work to elevate her status with me, then I'll happily keep her at the pay grade she deserves. The desire to achieve a higher status comes with a genuine dedication to achieving that status. Sure, she may get that promotion with some beta- but not you. You're trying to build an empire- action and results are the only things that matter.