I hope you read past the title because this post isn't what you think it is.

Sun Tzu says:

Not all those who cause us harm are our enemies, so we need to know the ambitions of our friends as well as our perceived enemies.

and

If we know the designs of our enemies, then we may have a chance to turn them into allies, even if for just a short time.

Its a little startling just how many here view women as the enemy. Yet so many need them to feed their ego and use as a measuring stick to judge success. These people don't hate women. They hate that they need women.

Women are like snakes. And I don't mean they are sneaky and cold. I mean that we don't try to understand them. We perceive them as enemies. Do you think a snake looks at you as its enemy? A snake wants to eat, fuck and get through life expending as little calories as possible.

Some snakes on my farm I have to kill because they are hazards. But most I know are eating rats and other snakes. The emotional reaction is to hate them. But they are an ally nonetheless.

Every time I mention that I have a girlfriend here I can feel the disdain in the replies. Why, because I get laid at will and don't have to chase it? Because she fucks other girls with me? Because she will tell me everything I want to know about women and how to get them because its a way she pleases and serves me?

A women is like a snake. If you aren't constantly conscious that you are holding something that can bite you, then you are an idiot. But if you know the nature of the snake and what it wants and what its good at, then you can use it to your advantage.