Women have needs, not wants. Their primary needs are comfort, sex, and validation. These needs won't necessarily come from one person, and often are delegated amongst individuals and social groups.

When a woman says she wants to feel safe with someone who loves her, she wants to be able to open up emotionally. That's why she has beta orbiters and "besties." She feels safe and comfortable around orbiters because she knows that she has power over them; she knows that they are enamored with her and most likely won't ever do anything to her as long as she plays it safe. Men on Reddit call these people emotional tampons, because that's what they are; they are people that allow a woman to feel comfortable enough to open up about her feelings. She does this with her female best friends, too, (her true best friends, because most women don't actually trust most other women) but beta orbiters are even safer for her to open up to.

When plating women, you don't want to be that beta orbiter. Ever. However, you do want her to feel comfortable around you. That's why you have to make that wholly apparent from the moment you meet her. That's why we make eye contact and smile. That's why we send good vibes. Do not ever make it seem contractual or duplicitous when approaching a woman either; they are trained to pick up on it from a young age. Frame your attention in the most positive light; make her feel that whatever you want for her is a win-win. Even if you only want to have a one-night stand and she wants an LTR, spin the engagement between you two so you get what you want and she feels like she'll get what she wants.

One of the capital mistakes most betas and nice guys make is believing women do not want sex. There are women who rationalize the cock carousel by saying they have needs, sexual needs. Some of you who have been in the beta orbiter position know that women love sex, sometimes more than men, but society tells them to either safeguard it and otherwise be a promiscuous women of ill-repute or be sexually liberated and otherwise hold women as a sex back. Unless they are the very small, asexual minority, they want sex. Period. The only modifiers are when, where, and with whom.

It is up to you to answer those modifiers with "when I want it," "where I want it," and "with me." Do not fall into the trap that women make for beta men and believe that they are wholly innocent and don't want sex. They need it. Make them need you to give it to them.

When a woman says she wants someone to treat her right, someone to respect her, she's truthfully talking about validation. Jessica Valenti, a proud feminist, complained about consistent cat calls out on the street in one article, but, one year later, she blames society for making her miss it. That's because she needs validation. The reason why women want a man with high SMV and large social clout is because they feel validated when they're noticed by these men. Internally, women are insecure because society tells them to be everything and nothing at the same time. Feminism tells them to be headstrong and cooperative, but back-stabbing, female friends will constantly try to one-up and undercut them. Their entire lives, women are told what they want for them.

Currently, we live in an age where men are beginning to be told what to do, but those of us here on TheRedPill have chosen to self-validate as we should. In that sense, we have that advantage over women. Use it. When you know who you are, people will follow it. TheRedPill calls this frame, and it's dangerous to ever let it break. The moment you put your validation in the hands of someone else, you have broken frame and you have lowered your status to a woman. A woman does not want someone like her, a woman wants someone better than her. That's why you'll see many highly-educated women complaining about not finding enough good men for them; women of this current generation are the more likely to be highly-educated and they still believe in the fairy tale of meeting a prince that will become their king. Be that king. Always.

Sometimes, all three needs can be met by one guy, but you don't need to do that. If you're on TheRedPill, you want to fulfill one need, and that's her need for sex. You can make her feel like she fulfilling her other two primary needs, but you should not make it your primary need to fulfill them. Do not do that. Never do that. Always throw the knight away and become king.

Bonne chance, gentilhomme et bonne nuit.

Translation: Good luck, gentleman and good night