Dating seems difficult.

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2021-07-05T10:38:50+00:00

Rule 6. The subreddit name must be censored.

Overkillengine · 2021-07-05T05:10:46+00:00

They always want to gloss over how past behavior is a good predictor of future behavior because the deception by omission benefits them....at your expense, by robbing you of the chance to make a better informed choice.

That is not a mentality of a person that has your best interests at heart. Quite the opposite.

So if they want to hide their body count, they don't need to know your real name, phone number, address, or income level either. They want jungle rules? Give them jungle rules.

panzer22222 · 2021-07-05T04:57:36+00:00

Women like to claim that their body count is no ones busness as that is the past but if a guy had cheated on the past 5 gf I doubt they would say 'that was the past'...actually one scenario they would be ok, if they were the one doing the cheating.

TheSigilStone · 2021-07-05T05:46:07+00:00

This is why we invented words and phrases such as whore, slut, town bicycle, etc. To weed out the worst types of women from the big bunch in society. These people are insane if they think we are going to save these bat-shit, crazy women who sleep with more men than they have birthdays. My ancestors would turn in their grave if I married one of these promiscuous succubi.

Bob_and_Virginia · 2021-07-05T05:33:48+00:00

So this car I'm looking at, it's got a blown out engine, saggy suspensions and body rust. Should I not care and buy it anyway?

CarFax exists for valid reasons, people!

ogrilla99 · 2021-07-05T06:33:24+00:00

I fully agree with her! Now excuse me as I ask her out on a date. Surely she won't care that I raped and killed my last 5 girlfriends, mutilated a few neighborhood dogs, and used to have a dungeon in my old house. That's all in the past! It has no bearing on how I might or might not treat her, right?

LongTimeOn · 2021-07-05T06:26:23+00:00

How hard it's it for women to understand that if you have a high body count it's a sign of bad character and an indicator for what a future relationship would be like? People who sleep about a lot tend to treat sex as a transaction, therefore are more open to conmiting one night stands / casual affairs as they don't see it as terribly important. Most people don't think like this and would avoid being in any sort of relationship with someone who does think like this. It's not rocket science really, but still women want to believe that sucking 1000 dicks in their youth has no bearing on their future....dillusional.

mgtowyear4 · 2021-07-05T06:20:37+00:00

I try to buy cars and bikes with lowest odo reading as possible. Buying used is always a hassle. They clock down their mileage, you see. Prone to abuse by the ex owners, parts give up too soon. And I have to shell out my precious resources including time to set them right.

If the engine is abused a lot, or the chassis is bent, then no amount of pampering is going to set it right. The workshops(therapists) charge by the hour and it comes back with more problems than what I sent it for.

Not to mention, they are a depreciating asset. I am speaking about cars, okay?

Disciple_Of_Cheesus · 2021-07-05T06:52:46+00:00

Never pay full price for worn-out, shoddy used goods.

xxdsidexx · 2021-07-05T07:46:40+00:00

"people feel shameful..."

Maybe you should look into why you feel shameful and stop projecting your own guilt of your actions onto others?

LongTimeOn · 2021-07-05T06:26:35+00:00

How hard it's it for women to understand that if you have a high body count it's a sign of bad character and an indicator for what a future relationship would be like? People who sleep about a lot tend to treat sex as a transaction, therefore are more open to commiting one night stands / casual affairs as they don't see it as terribly important. Most people don't think like this and would avoid being in any sort of relationship with someone who does think like this. It's not rocket science really, but still women want to believe that sucking 1000 dicks in their youth has no bearing on their future....dillusional.

Homely_Bonfire · 2021-07-05T07:29:27+00:00

Well she is absolutely right, isn't she? It should not matter to anyone if her body count does not affect her current relationship. What she did not account for in that argument is, that it DOES affect her relationships which is why it matters. In the end her own argument worked against her, maybe because she believes in the blank slate theory and therefore does not acknowledge any kind of biological reality that humans are unable to just overcome.

Miggymoggy · 2021-07-05T09:13:43+00:00

Women are so hypocritical that they'll tell a man that their past shouldn't ever be brought up and is irrelevant (regardless of how bad her past is).

However a woman will bring up anything petty and insignificant from the past of a man as a weapon to use against him. Like they seem to remember something a man did in June 2007 but have an issue with a man who questions what a woman did two days ago etc.

_Shinjitsu_ · 2021-07-05T10:21:00+00:00

Some men might not be bothered by a woman's body count, but it's up to men to decide for themselves after having had all the relevant information.

Women go after men, who they know, dislike promiscuous behavior. These women then intentionally misrepresent themselves in order to get into a relationship with them.

The woman knows that: generally speaking, the kind of guy who dislikes promiscuous behavior will treat his woman better. She goes after this guy, after having given herself away to men who she knew, did not care about her...and now, she intentionally deceives this unsuspecting guy, in order to get him to take care of her.

Interestingly enough, she enters the relationship with the intent of not giving herself to her current man.
A woman who has been in multiple MMF threesomes, gang bangs, has had anal sex in the bathroom of a club a few minutes after meeting a guy, now gets in a relationship with a man, with the intention of :

- never having any FFM threesomes with him because "she doesn't want to share him because she luuuuuves him so much",

- never having anal sex because it's "degrading",

- only giving him blow-jobs only on "special occasions" when she used to suck cock left and right, etc.

She wants this guy to look at her like she is special, when she knowingly squandered herself before.

The town-bike wants to get a man to treat her like princess, through lies and deception.

A beat up 300 000 miles Pontiac wants to be treated like a brand new Bentley.

ronoda12 · 2021-07-05T08:41:03+00:00

Lol. Body count definitely matters. It gives the probability of STDs, abortions which may affect pregnancy probabilities in future, and most importantly pair bonding ability and stability of marriage and chances of getting divorce raped in family courts. You cant make a whore into a house wife. And men decide whom to marry. No amount of shaming will work. Going forward every man should check sex work history too like only fans or sugar daddies. Honestly thats a lot of work to find a wife among a sea of whores. Just not bothering and enjoying your life is probably much better thing to focus on.

Nero9214 · 2021-07-05T09:41:58+00:00

The last girl I was seeing told me she'd had a threesome with two guys years ago and I said that was that, a DQ from anything more than fwb. I used metaphors ams analogies to show how she wouldn't accept certain stuff, and like every other girl I've had that convo with (albeit about body count not threesomes) they always say "XYZ is not comparable to sex, sex doesn't hurt anyone" etc

troomer50 · 2021-07-05T10:03:19+00:00

Your history of rape doesn't matter, as long as you don't rape me

Put it in a language they understand

KW1112563 · 2021-07-05T07:54:34+00:00

To clarify even more: it goes both ways. Men and women being promiscuous have ill effects.

Watch these two videos on the subject: https://youtu.be/3Q0D3Q7BXUA

https://youtu.be/LY6ZUQWSBc0

peguy2000 · 2021-07-05T10:38:14+00:00

The same people that claim body count doesnt matter should let former pedophiles take care of your children, since the past doesnt matter, right?

meshflesh40 · 2021-07-05T05:43:03+00:00

Personally, i dont ask for body count.because these days theres a high chance you wont like the answer.

Hunic_legionary · 2021-07-05T09:17:54+00:00

Marrige thats just high stake gambling

DoNotTouchMyBongos · 2021-07-05T09:47:04+00:00

Show me the CuntFax or kick rocks.

BeauTofu · 2021-07-05T08:13:28+00:00

Come on guys.. this is really trying to shoot for something that's not there.

Body counts does not matter unless that count is increasing when you are in a relationship. And in this case. No one mentioned anything about cheating..

Not one of you guys can tell me that, if you've just walked out from a relationship and some 8/10 girl from a pub hit on you that you are going to go, "sorry, I don't want to add to my body counts."

Some of the entitled posts in this sub are crazy but this is certainly not one of them.

I love this sub but please, don't fill it with bs and woman hating when it's not justified.

Title	Dating seems difficult.
Author	KW1112563
Upvotes	110
Comments	63
Date	July 5, 2021 4:47 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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