Don't be this guy.

RPBulletDodger · 2018-03-11T19:35:57+00:00

This is just so painful to bear (I've never been in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship before)

Puts pussy on a pedestal; has never had a girlfriend.

Shocker.

+1. Do not be this guy.

MemoryLapse · 2018-03-11T19:44:04+00:00

Women are spoiled brats.

Incel4Life · 2018-03-11T20:02:44+00:00

I was that guy. This girl was showing strong signs of interest in me for a few weeks, and then one day she abruptly stopped and casually mentioned she started dating some guy that asked her on a date while she was at work, and started ignoring my texts. I legitimately felt suicidal to the point that suicide seemed like the only only way out. I was 24, had been unemployed for over a year, and this college girl, who was the very first girl that had ever shown signs of romantic interest in me, was the only source of happiness in my life. The very next day after she told me she was dating this guy, I got a high paying job offer 2000 miles away, and a week later I hopped on a plane and never saw her again. It took me months to get over her, but after I finally did get over her I realized it was a blessing: She was unattractive, obese, had a horrible manipulative personality, and had classical signs of PCOS such as hirutism and hairloss. I just had infatuation goggles on that made me think of her as the best and most beautiful girl ever, and the perfect match for me.

BluepillProfessor · 2018-03-11T22:50:29+00:00

Tingle Uber Alles

juggalo_lyfe · 2018-03-11T22:38:46+00:00

i do NOT want to be that man lol

[deleted] · 2018-03-12T22:47:09+00:00

A whole week of texting each other sometimes is what he considers effort huh? Boy is he in for a shock. If a girl is showing interest within a week of breaking up with an ex, there's a strong possibility you're just a rebound or an attempt to make her ex jealous. Unless you're just looking for a fling, stay away from recently separated women.

Lithuim · 2018-03-12T18:10:29+00:00

Talking for a week

Christ man, they're basically strangers and he's devastated because she ducked out with the ol' "I'm not ready" line.

Babby's first date indeed.

sevrerus_fum · 2018-03-13T19:22:08+00:00

Wow...why...I mean...WHAT?

Dude, if you ever come to read this...grow a pair! Grow a pair, develop yourself. Learn about yourself. Do not put undeserving women on a pedestral.

If you do not follow such simple advice, and FAST, then I got bad news for you: It's gonna be a life of dissappointment, getting manipulated by women who use and abuse you, without you even knowing it...because people who get so invested into a women, with so little effort on her side, are the easiest targets for the manipulative bitches of which there are a FUCKTON out there You will fall for one skank after another, and not even get sex out of it, because if you keep this up, then they will just play with you, exploit you, and go get their holes filled by some wannabe-alpha.

If a girl shows no interest, then LET HER BE!!

And just so we are absolutely clear about this: SHE DID NOT show any interest! Heavens and hell, you were TALKING for a WEEK sunshine! That means you are less intimate with that girl, than I am with the proprietor of the coffee shop across the street from my office!

There are 7.470.000.000 (That's 7.47 BILLION) people on this planet. Trust me when I tell you this: There are other women.

houseoftolstoy · 2018-03-12T12:57:53+00:00

Moral of the story: don't invest in a woman isn't also invested in you.

I have been there, and it is the path towards misery. Sometimes I wish I could travel back in time and give my past self a smack of blunt truth. At least I know now, so if I have any sons, I can guide them right.

twayne-by-the-ocean · 2018-03-12T02:22:04+00:00

Caution: entitled women ahead.

If a relationship is like a stock investment, it’s probably best to avoid the female Bernie madoffs.

Title	Don't be this guy.
Author	sleepyweaselisawake
Upvotes	35
Comments	35
Date	March 11, 2018 6:24 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/83oi4p/dont_be_this_guy/
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