(forums.red x-post) Single mother realizes she's lonely, and that being a single mom is "so so so hard". Maybe she should have waited to conceive within marriage, instead of either choosing a guy who wouldn't stick around or driving a decent man away.

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2021-04-15T11:34:31+00:00

everything happens for a reason

In her case, the reason is that she's a dumbass who makes bad decisions.

I start to feel like I'll be single forever.

You probably will.

I'm not sure why I'm writing this post.

I can think of 2 reasons:

1) you can't think things through on your own,

2) you depend on external validation.

does this lonely feeling go away?

I've heard cats can help.

th3r3dpill · 2021-04-14T12:57:58+00:00

Amateur translator here.

“I made terrible life choices and now I have to live with the consequences of aforementioned choices. Why can I have the same results as people who made the correct life choices?” Boo fucking hoo

MRMRising · 2021-04-14T13:11:46+00:00

Unless the father got very sick and died, or was a casualty of war, then she is a single mom by choice.

SwinPain · 2021-04-14T13:36:42+00:00

Choice meet consequence.

SCCock · 2021-04-14T15:34:34+00:00

Everything does happen for a reason. And we all know the reason that your life is unfolding the way it is, you spread your legs for a fleeting moment of pleasure.

Loud-Bottle-7879 · 2021-04-14T15:40:44+00:00

“Everything happens for a reason”

Yes, you are experiencing hardships as a consequence of your horrible choices. There is your reasoning.

mrkeifer86 · 2021-04-14T15:36:45+00:00

Or you know parental alienation and family law favoring mothers 95.9% of the time could be and probably is the reason.

Miggymoggy · 2021-04-14T16:22:26+00:00

She chose to be a single mother and these same women said they're "strong", "independent" and told us repeatedly with the words of "I don't need a man", so 100% of men should grant them their wish and leave them alone.

Single mothers are utter failures but there is always Captain Thirsty around the corner to save them.

Balefirez · 2021-04-14T18:12:10+00:00

I hate that phrase, “Everything happens for a reason.” It implies that things are out of your control. “I didn’t want a baby, but everything happens for a reason.” Yep, and sometimes that reason is you made poor life choices and now you have to deal with the consequences of those choices.

loneliness-inc · 2021-04-15T00:30:20+00:00

At 18: relationship? WTF for?!?!?!? I'm too busy drowning in dick, attention and free shit.

At 25: BF I a good guy, but I'm breaking up with him because I can do better.

At 30: I'm so unlucky in dating... men are such jerks and assholes!!!!!!!!!!

At 35: after my crotch spawn goes to bed, I'm faced with the loneliness of my existence.

At 40: the silence is deafening!!!!!!!

At 45: I'm more mature and I'm finally ready for a nice man.

At 50: my list of demands is at 50% off! Please buy now, before the store goes out of business.

At 55: damn menopausal mustache! Maybe that's why I can't find a man. Time to blow all my money on a midlife crisis.

At 60: the 38 year old married father from three doors over is so cute. Does he have any idea how badly I want him?

At 65: time to collect social security. Oh shit!!! Social security is bankrupt and no longer exists! What happened to the sacred promise? Reeeeeeeeeeeeee!

At 70: why aren't there any gentlemen anymore?

At 75: where are the men who know how to treat a lady?

At 80: chivalry is dead! Waaaaaaaaah!

At 85: I should have never broken up with Ryan! Look at his beautiful family. He just became a great grandfather. Damn.

At 90: boxed wine induced hip fracture.

At 95: elderly depression.

At 100: the end...... 😺😸😹😻😼😽🙀😿😾🙊

YouSaidChicken · 2021-04-14T14:16:13+00:00

"I want a free baby sitter! Who knew spreading your legs and being strong and independent was like....so hard and stuff!"

"I need someone to pay all the bills so I can sleep all day and I need day care so little Trischelle won't keep me awake. Also, you'll need to go fight Tyrone who is late on child support and make up for the dollars he hasn't sent."

Ok-Adeptness4906 · 2021-04-14T18:04:47+00:00

"You start to wonder why your life is written this way" - holy rationalizing your way out of any personal responsibility, Batman! How about you CHOSE to have sex with a man you CHOSE who was unsuitable for marriage and the two of you CHOSE not to use contraception, then you CHOSE to carry the pregnancy to term, and you CHOSE not to give the child up for adoption?

umockdev · 2021-04-14T14:39:40+00:00

Tja.

As we say in the german sphere.

Should've married and made sure the guy i actually serious abour it.

SwinPain · 2021-04-14T17:33:58+00:00

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velvetunderground111 · 2021-04-15T18:26:12+00:00

I am a child free male and my life has enough bullshit in it. I can't imagine being a single mom. Then again, I can't imagine lacking this much foresight to see how bad this situation was going to turn out. But that "View" brainwashing that being a single mom is sunshine and roses still probably runs pretty deep. There is a reason the two parent family has always worked the best....

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2021-04-14T13:29:56+00:00

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