She keeps getting cheated on. Will her ability to trust be broken forever? Will she ever find a loyal GoodMan?

loneliness-inc · 2020-07-29T23:21:34+00:00

I would argue that women are more likely to successfully cheat over social media than men.

But yes, Snapchat and most other social media’s are a cancer on society and make it 1000 times easier to cheat.

Overkillengine · 2020-07-29T23:24:12+00:00

Am I just bad at picking guys?

Yes.

She's likely dating exciting bad boys / Chads instead of some boring reliable guy.

Ladies, just because he's hawwwwt does not mean he is a good person. In fact, it increases his ability to successfully cheat since other women want him too and will put up with him being a cheater to get him.

Honest_Solution · 2020-07-29T23:25:24+00:00

What is with these women wanting to play house? Before I was married I never lived with a girl, didn’t want to. I needed my own space and if she wasn’t gonna pay half the bills and sign a mortgage then her ass wasn’t sleeping in my house.

DeeplyDisturbed1 · 2020-07-30T01:29:46+00:00

What never comes up in these posts or conversations it the elephant in the room: How many orbiters, or male "Friends" doe she have hanging around. And what is the nature of those relationships and their communication.

I can speak from experience on this one. When a woman has "relaxed" boundaries with other men, then I adopt those boundaries with women. If that leads to the demise of the relationship, then so be it.

As long as I don't cheat, then I will never EVER allow or accept double standards Either we are BOTH all in or neither of us is all in.

I let the woman set that tone.

Guess how it goes nearly 100% of the time. Go ahead. I'll wait.

Mundane_Worldliness7 · 2020-07-29T23:40:24+00:00

I love how she asks if all guys do it. Of course not, just the ones she picks. She got a type, and the type is an asshole.

thisisnotyourconcern · 2020-07-29T23:40:14+00:00

Women can cheat far more easily than men can, short of paying to do so.

NotherThrowaway284 · 2020-07-29T23:38:57+00:00

We're living in a country where nobody trusts anybody anymore and she's wondering why it's so hard to trust??? This is.......not complicated.

DangZagnut · 2020-07-29T23:24:42+00:00

She's just justifying her own cheating.

Hamster @ 5000 RPMs

Notlikeotherguys · 2020-07-29T23:26:52+00:00

Cell phones and socisl media have made cheating far to easy and common. I feel for my kids, who will probably never know a "normal" relationship.

Something_Chronical · 2020-07-30T00:11:45+00:00

Usually when women accuse their SO of cheating, they did it too, a lot more. It's easier for ladies, and they'll seek it in their partner when they do it themselves.

zucine · 2020-07-30T04:16:39+00:00

This isn't even a woman issue, cheaters are pieces of shit reguardless.

69problemCel · 2020-07-30T03:38:38+00:00

Picking a younger guy than her self was a good first steep to get cheated

TheApricotCavalier · 2020-07-30T03:01:27+00:00

Hmmm, she raises a good question. Where are all the men who dont snapchat?

fatalityforever1 · 2020-07-30T01:17:12+00:00

maybe dont date chads u whore

Aldabruzzo · 2020-07-30T14:09:37+00:00

How do you trust people when it's so easy to cheat via technology these days?

I don't know, chickypoo. You tell me. You women are the ones who invented technocheating. You women are the ones who first started using Facebook to hook up with your high school boyfriends, and with guys from high school you never had the chance or the ovaries to fuck back then. You women are the ones using Instagram to hawk your OnlyFans accounts. You women are the ones using IG to gather "likes" from men you'll never fuck, but you like the attention.

SpecialSpnk · 2020-07-30T05:45:52+00:00

Ever wonder if monogamy is bullshit and men like variety?

loneliness-inc · 2020-07-30T11:58:18+00:00

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loneliness-inc · 2020-07-30T21:18:48+00:00

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DarkDoomDoom · 2020-07-30T21:34:59+00:00

« Please don’t say “date men not boys” this is an issue regardless of age »

so basically for her a man is just a more older male. This is the proof that’s she doesn’t how to pick a man.

SirKolbath · 2020-07-30T23:31:09+00:00

Well, here's a simple concept, kiddo:

If he's looking elsewhere for what he should be looking to you then the simpler question is "What are you not providing him that he needs to seek from outdid your relationship?"

When you have the answer to that you will know why he cheats, electronically or in person.

-Acta-Non-Verba- · 2020-07-30T19:23:11+00:00

"Am I just bad at picking guys?"

Yes.

2020-08-02T20:43:44+00:00

If everywhere you go smells like dogshit you need to check your shoes.

loneliness-inc · 2020-07-30T13:40:11+00:00

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ismisechloe · 2020-08-03T12:22:32+00:00

So are you saying it’s okay for men to cheat on women?

loneliness-inc · 2020-08-04T21:30:22+00:00

I love her question about if you can still Love your spouse and cheat on them.

NO the answer is NO the only reason she even goes there is that Women will hamster away cheating by claiming they still love you.

But if Princess admitted this she might come to the conclusion that these guys really didn't love her, and were just in it for a roommate they could bang.

She keeps getting cheated on. Will her ability to trust be broken forever? Will she ever find a loyal GoodMan?

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Her!

"I'm asking you to demonstrate how having sex with someone else directly diminishes or contradicts the love itself."

Title	She keeps getting cheated on. Will her ability to trust be broken forever? Will she ever find a loyal GoodMan?
Author	loneliness-inc
Upvotes	152
Comments	70
Date	July 29, 2020 11:12 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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