What's wrong with me, why does this keep happening?

InevitableOwl1 · 2024-07-17T13:34:49+00:00

She is getting a taste of what life is like as a man. She’s been hit with all the classics:

“I don’t know how you are single” (by people who have no intention of dating you) You’ve got all these positive qualities … but…. “I only see you as a friend” (pretty much always with absolutely zero intention of being friends or even staying touch. This just means that they hope to not be met with a glare or angry reaction should they ever bump into you) Also … why are the women who post like this always “conventionally attractive”. I really struggle to believe it. If you’ve been told by friends, family or people who just want sex from you then you can’t place weight on it. My mum says I’m handsome. Doesn’t make it true.

I assume it’s apps that give her this idea. They seem to add at least two points to a woman’s score in their own head - just anecdotally from the women who occasionally match and message me. But also from the often discussed point of men on these apps sleeping down and the women then getting “stuck on their highest setting”

I guess too many women have swallowed the idea that men only care about looks. Which is odd because they also simultaneously think men care about how strong, successful and independent they are

Joaquino7997 · 2024-07-17T13:30:45+00:00

It's probably because her SMV has either tanked or was never as high as she presumed it to be.

gntlbastard · 2024-07-17T14:58:45+00:00

Sounds like a bad case of waiting too long and picking out of your league.

Svartanatten · 2024-07-17T15:38:44+00:00

Stuck in the F zone now are we?

Fuck, Fling, Friday, Fun and so on only!

I wonder why. She seems very, ehm, ye...

AtkinsCatkins · 2024-07-17T21:32:57+00:00

The greater the disparity between leagues, the more likely you will always be shelved.

If you make your "Must haves" high, then you compete with everyone else who has the same "Must haves" thats ok, if you are the top pick....but you are not.

In simple terms her qualities are unattractive, be they physical or mental, to the guys she considers her potential partner.

Welcome to basic dating 101 NOBODY OWES YOU A RELATIONSHIP.

Serial_Killer_PT · 2024-07-19T04:51:27+00:00

She's clearly an alpha widow. Maybe that's why men don't want to pick you up, you're already "commited" to your "ex".

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