“Why do top tier men ghost me?” Answer at the end.

Eterniter · 2024-05-24T18:56:48+00:00

Wow, there's a lot to unpack here. The fact that she has a child and hides it on dates? That she claims she is single by choice, doesn't need anyone and is annoyed by people judging her lifestyle then proceeding to go out to 40+ dates in a year?

Won't even mention how she was 60k in debt and had to live in a van for a while.

Add all the above together and she wants a conventionally attractive and successful man.

DrDog09 · 2024-05-24T18:40:14+00:00

Feels, not reals. As to the 3 dates scenario. I conclude that women don't understand how transparent social media makes peoples lives. All these three men had to do is spend a hour scanning social media to discover that this woman is, to apply the Archie Bunker moniker, an airhead.

BargainBard · 2024-05-24T19:16:12+00:00

Typical women wanting superman and clark kent walks by them all day long.

Plenty of amazing guys would love to settle down with but because he is a bit short or his job/career pays well but isn't "flashy"?

He gets ignored and even mocked.

StickySmokedRibs · 2024-05-24T18:58:27+00:00

lol 40+ dates chasing the same excitement her ex brought her..these women are something else.

LeopoldPaulister · 2024-05-24T20:01:20+00:00

Can you imagine the work a man would have to put to go on 40 dates in a year? Women don't know how easy they have it, men literally fall on their lap. But yeah this chick is a trainwreck.

gentle_lemon · 2024-05-24T18:37:57+00:00

That’s crazy. I wonder what (who) the common denominator is in these scenarios? 🤔

ZarBandit · 2024-05-24T20:00:20+00:00

No decent man would invite this chaos into his life. She’s proven she’s unable to adult in every basic measurable way in life: shelter, food, reproduction, relationships. She’s a loser and will see to it her kid follows in her footsteps.

polishknightusa · 2024-05-24T18:31:15+00:00

This is a year’s worth of a Scorpio’s personal posts/comments climaxing in an epiphany, but not in chronological order for readability (timestamps are visible though). As a Sagittarius, was thinking to expand new horizons and (perhaps) this could be flared Epiphany or even The Big Question but one of the moderators could be a Taurus so posting as Single Mom Tears, weekend content. TL;dr: Feel free to read the intro and skip to the end and then read the middle later particularly if you’re a Virgo, Pisces, or Aries.

Lord_Kano · 2024-05-24T23:35:24+00:00

She's a plain Jane and thinks that she is somehow going to land an alpha Chad. Nope.

They'll sleep with you but they won't commit to you.

Overkillengine · 2024-05-25T00:00:02+00:00

Literally everything about her other than "has vagina" is a trainwreck. Is flabbergasted that she gets treated like an easily replaceable fuck-hole.

Modern woman ☕

Stidda · 2024-05-24T20:49:56+00:00

So many women are speaking in tongues and are on ”Journeys” these days. Does no one stay still anymore?

Gogyoo · 2024-05-25T05:25:02+00:00

On top of everything else mentioned, she despises having a kid. Really she despises being born a woman. And I had to laugh at her saying she was truly independent and that the community was so helpful in the same breath.

Glittering-Meat3088 · 2024-05-24T21:45:43+00:00

This bitch is crazy.

StopManaCheating · 2024-05-24T20:30:21+00:00

She’s almost self aware.

Almost. She won’t actually learn the lesson until it’s too late.

Land_of_the_Losers · 2024-05-24T23:21:19+00:00

Come for the spinster, stay for the hamster!

Cristoff13 · 2024-05-25T05:22:23+00:00

Those posts are all from the same lady? I thought it was from three when I first read them. That's a lot of crazy.

Carquetta · 2024-05-25T21:04:29+00:00

This person is flying a parade of red flags:

Astrology
Single mother
Refers to her son's father as a "sperm donor"
Has a substance abuse problem (alcohol)
Has (had?) $60k+ in debt and went through bankruptcy
Is old
Is continuously chasing "feelings"
Claims that men are "deeply insecure and despise women"

It can't be that I'm a misandrist astrology-obsessed alcoholic single mother; It's the men who are the problem. Got it.

aoxspring · 2024-05-25T10:01:14+00:00

"Privilege is invisible to those that have it" springs to mind with the entitlement on show her. Feelings aside however fundamentally what men are looking for in a relationship is peace. You get from reading all of this that she's the antithesis of this

Kryllist · 2024-05-26T20:51:21+00:00

As you can see, women don't think their economic failures affect them as romantic partners.

Women don't really comprehend that when disasterous lifestyles happen, it's often a result of your own personality issues. You don't end up a homeless, bankrupt, 60k in non college or medical debt, single mother living out of a van depending on strangers for survival unless there were some horrible decisions and behavior along the way.

Fact of the matter is she shouldn't have ever even sniffed the jock of a high value man. Now just simply dating and kneeling before these men have her thinking she's entitled to one taking her seriously. This may have flied when she was younger, but older men do not want anything to do with old women who's lives are a trainwreck.

schwiftytime2day · 2024-05-25T09:34:36+00:00

The penny seemed to FINALLY drop for her at the end. Either the conventionally attractive men that were dating her got what they wanted and skidaddled or she wasn't putting out and they noped out. Either way she was a pump and dump. She probably outed herself by talking about her silly astrology stuff 💫

I'm dying to know what her "business" was. She claimed to be a "professional" romantic writer, I've a feeling it was just that 🤦🏻‍♂️

Wasted 40 men's valuable time and money and they're all the problem.

Another delusional grown-ass woman-child playing make-believe.

New_Wrangler3335 · 2024-05-25T14:53:49+00:00

Women copium logic paired with delusional perception of reality and mix that with astrology logic… you’ve got a perfect woman

DrDog09 · 2024-05-27T23:46:51+00:00

One other observation based on 'scenario 3' on her list. At least she did not freak out like some women we see who recount their encounters with men. Probably the only good thing in her favor.

Siddyf · 2024-06-03T21:32:24+00:00

Holy shit! This is a short anthology of what is a huge cohort in the distribution. The post history is everything.

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