Where are all the good men who will develop a relationship with me without asking me out on a date or taking my looks into consideration?

moorekom · 2022-04-06T13:51:18+00:00

This is weekend content. She is not asking for commitment, she is being picky. This should be posted under WAATGM- In this making in the weekend. This post is being removed. Repost it in the weekend.

Invictus_44 · 2022-04-06T13:21:02+00:00

Get to know me BEFORE asking to get to know me

Its totally possible

NutsLikeMelons · 2022-04-06T13:31:00+00:00

Here boy. Sit. Shake. Roll over. Play dead. Good boy.

deckran · 2022-04-06T13:44:56+00:00

The thing she describes is exactly what used to happen 50+ years ago. It was called courting. It reminded me of the scene in Godfather with Michael courting Apolonia. She gets introduced formally by the social group (family) and with the father's permission he asks her out. Funny, maybe i am crazy but i get the idea that this method was widely used because *gasp* maybe it actually worked. But no, women thought they knew better so now they get to enjoy a messed up dating market they created and complaining online. You reap what you sow.

Midahu69 · 2022-04-06T13:34:47+00:00

Perhaps she should join the local reading to the blind group, that way they can fall in love with her voice and obviously sparkling personality.

Edit: spelling

otter6461a · 2022-04-06T13:47:36+00:00

So she has to find him “hot from the start,” but HE has to be uninterested in her looks.

How do these women get so delusional?

CreepyAssPenis · 2022-04-06T13:45:21+00:00

Ah yes, let's keep moving the goalpost further away. If he can't overcome all the senseless obstacles I've created he doesn't deserve me

Joaquino7997 · 2022-04-06T13:48:49+00:00

This article is the classic example of "theory and practice."

In theory, women SAY they want to meet men at a social gathering, get to know each other after having attended multiple other gatherings and he then asks her out.

However, in reality, women may very well be perfectly fine with meeting men in social gatherings. BUT...they decide they "feel as if they know 'everything' about him." There's 'no spark' from her for him and he now will forever remain in the Friend Zone.

You do what she wants and you're penalized?! Who needs that in a partner??

WeRAllOnThisBlessedD · 2022-04-06T13:50:34+00:00

I got cold approached recently and my reaction was the same as always…just a knee jerk “sorry I’m busy”

She always brushes off men who approach her, and then spends the rest of her post whining that she can’t find anyone. More to the point…..

He notices me

He finds me attractive

invite me out

He gets to know me

He enjoys my personality

Sounds great. So what does she ever intend to do for him?

This is a fundamental difference between men and women and how we live in completely different worlds. Men have to work for what they want; women just expect things to happen for them and will throw a temper tantrum when it doesn’t work out the way they expected.

Single? He needs to approach me and do things for me so that I won’t be single anymore.

Not paid enough? The government needs to force my company to pay me more.

Deep down, even the most blue haired feminist cannot deny this reality, though they’ll never admit it.

YRUHear75 · 2022-04-06T13:38:21+00:00

Is the looks part negotiable ? Cuz most guys are shallow pigs by nature and winter usually date someone noticeable uglier than them. I'm fact men usually expect to "date up" especially if they have money or power.

Correction: Most should be vast overwhelming majority of men.

Title	Where are all the good men who will develop a relationship with me without asking me out on a date or taking my looks into consideration?
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Date	April 6, 2022 1:14 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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