Yes.

Bitsoft · 2018-05-04T16:04:21+00:00

they don't see me as someone they would settle down with anymore

Damn this is textbook life of Carol case right here. Nice find!

ShadyShopkeeper · 2018-05-04T16:28:02+00:00

This is why it's awesome being a fit man in your 30s

VanityKings · 2018-05-04T17:04:06+00:00

And this is why so many post wall whorebags cheat or pressure their beta bailouts to allow cucking.

"These guys check every box but I'm not attracted to them"
Lmfao, and society says Men are the shallow ones? Revolting

sleepyweaselisawake · 2018-05-04T17:22:06+00:00

No.. No I'm not interested in being in a relationship with someone who finally wants to settle down. You missed your window with me about 10 years ago when you were still chasing dick and I was trying to figure out how life works. Now that I'm hitting my prime and have access to younger women who want to have a good time and bring positive energy if nothing else I'm going to capitalize. Welcome to being an average guy, it sucks but you won't live forever so there's that.

ClockworkOrange92618 · 2018-05-04T17:04:33+00:00

don't worry Carol, I'm not sure what to do at this point either. it's like fucking common knowledge but you are posting as if you are dumbfounded at the realization that men like younger women better?

Peers/coworkers guys that I always saw on my similar level of dating attractiveness

Well you are wrong, clearly. They are on a higher level than you. Even if you were to clone yourself into a man at the same age (looking like a decent man, obv), the fact of the matter is that age will make someone more or less attractive automatically. Don't like it? Welcome to a man's life at age 16-22.

ThePlague · 2018-05-04T16:29:58+00:00

It seems that many people don't realize that relative sexual power shifts with age. All things being equal (looks, money, other qualities), men go from being beggars in their teens and 20s to being choosers after. Well, perhaps, more equal footing in the 30s, but definitely choosers 40+.

DRUMPF_HUSSEIN_OBAMA · 2018-05-04T18:06:54+00:00

I do workout however, because of my work hours, lack of sleep, and other obligations I can't get good workouts in.

Excuses. Men have shit to do, too, and they still have to find time to workout to look good.

I want to settle down and have a family,

Should have done that in your 20s.

This isn't something that is just in my head, the directors/VP's people above me in the company almost all have wives 15 years younger than them and or have divorced the wife they had when they were younger. I feel like it is a "thing."

It's taken you over three decades to realise that men prefer younger women?

LewisCross · 2018-05-04T19:38:31+00:00

That last paragraph guys. In bold.

I am feeling like my two choices are either stay single or settle down with a guy i am not that attracted to but checks every other box.

What have i been telling you guys? Huh? Do you believe it now? Are you getting it now? The evidence is RIGHT THERE.

And now you have a woman in an unguarded moment ADMITTING THAT THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENS - a lot of women go ahead and get married to men they are not all that attracted to but he's fine in every other respect.

I told you so. I TOLD YOU SO.

boisdevie · 2018-05-04T16:43:02+00:00

Reading these stories gives me a warm glow all over.

goober_boobz · 2018-05-04T18:01:45+00:00

I have gone on dates that definitely do want to pursue a relationship with me, however I am not really attracted to them. The physical attraction element isn't there.

There's your answer lady. If the men you want don't want to date you, its because the physical attraction element just isn't there. You can't complain that attractive men aren't interested, but act like you're still too attractive to settle for men who are. I hope her ovaries dry up tighter than a plum in the southern sun.

Ex_Swm_Lfw · 2018-05-04T18:01:55+00:00

Woman on the other side of the wall finds out spinsters are still a thing. Is wildly surprised to find out men prefer women in their 20's, and in the current market of marriageable dudes heavily favors them doing exactly that.

Don't look at your own vajayjay; at how many times you've given it up for low quality men that gave you the tingles during your decade of serial CC riding. How you've encouraged a shortage of good men by chasing tingles over character and commitment. Even now, at this juncture, you can't place aside tingle chasing to bag a decent guy. Right now you've got less attractive decent guys interested. In 5 years you won't have that.

Right now you are inwardly lamenting passing up your best chance to get a decent attractive guy by not being serious about it. In 5 years you'll be lamenting passing up your last chance to get any decent man because you refuse to settle. And 5 years after lamenting that you can't get any man at all.

The hilariously funny thing is you realize ALL OF THIS. And yet still can't settle while you still have the chance at a decent marriage. Because being a slut and chasing Chad is just whom you are now and there is no way you can place that aside. Now I wonder how many women are going to tell you you shouldn't settle because the universe owes you your dream man.

CannabisCumshot69 · 2018-05-04T20:42:11+00:00

Starts off:

men my age no longer see me the same way

Towards the bottom:

It is not that I am deprived of attention [...] however I am not really attracted to them.

OH, so it's not that literally nobody will date you, it's just that you can't pull the quality of guy you would like. Yeah there's a phrase for that, it's called "realistic expectations", welcome to the club.

Schraelnick · 2018-05-04T17:08:31+00:00

Got to, 5'6 136 lbs, which in reality she is 5'4 150 lbs.

cycloneous · 2018-05-04T19:55:43+00:00

I am not sure what to do at this point. I want to settle down and have a family, I know there is a biological clock with all this but I don't know what to do

Bingo! Gents, there's the problem, she has a contracted or is about to contract a bad case of Baby Rabies.

She even admits to riding the Carousel in her youth and STILL chose to break it off. I guarantee you there were probably 2 or 3 men that would have made good husbands but because of her insane demands and Carousel riding ways she chose to have it out rather focusing on what is in front of her. Now she's feeling the burn of the wall hitting her, and she wants to cash out her C-ck Carousel Frequent Flyer Miles! Sorry lady, you made your bed, now lay in it!

unpluggedoasis · 2018-05-04T20:52:18+00:00

mmm mmm mmm that schadenfreude is delicious.

48LawsOfFlour · 2018-05-04T23:04:05+00:00

There's a reason they don't call it settling up.

The_Hokage · 2018-05-04T21:10:01+00:00

In the original post, the first string of comments is fucking excellent.

There is a guy who drops knowledge like he was born to do it.

kyledontcare · 2018-05-04T21:22:58+00:00

Advice: You're screwed and you're in deep yogurt. Hope you enjoy pets.

EconomistMagazine · 2018-05-04T23:50:01+00:00

The VPs and Directors all have younger wives

Exactly! These are the corporate alpha men. They don't have to settle.

Incel4Life · 2018-05-05T02:15:42+00:00

You mean those hunks that fucked me in college only wanted me for sex and didn't want to marry me? You really mean that for marriage I am going to have to settle for someone who is *gasp* on my own looks level?

PhotosyntheticChad · 2018-05-05T14:22:53+00:00

Yes it is a ‘thing’. It’s called ‘men are fertile until they die, women have a biological time out’. How sexist of nature.

Devilsgun · 2018-05-05T03:25:53+00:00

Picky, Picky Old Bat Don't Know Her Cooter Ain't Where It's At

I enjoy restoring old cars, not doing frame-up redos on burned out old bitches tho.

Go cuddle with your career.

hc84 · 2018-05-05T06:16:51+00:00

No mentions of her personality, meaning she has none.

WWladCZ · 2018-05-05T09:37:03+00:00

Hypergamy hamster doing cartwheels =D

the_unseen_one · 2018-05-05T15:56:42+00:00

She wasted her youth and her chance to lock down an attractive man when she had the chance. Now, she's slammed into the wall, and realizes only dudes she doesn't want to fuck are willing to accept her blown out holes and tired face, but feels like this is unfair. Why are all those handsome men going after the hot young things?! Where's her good (attractive and wealthy) man now that she's had her fun being filled with kilo liters of cum and wants babies?

oh_no_aliens · 2018-05-04T21:33:02+00:00

Yo, sell me that image, i'll give you $120 and a Supreme brick.

JosephBancor · 2018-05-05T00:58:39+00:00

https://r.go1dfish.me/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/697tc7/i_have_found_that_men_my_age_no_longer_see_me_the/

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ivanttobealone · 2018-05-05T00:00:00+00:00

maybe she's just not hot

inlovewithyourmother · 2018-05-08T19:37:23+00:00

Now she wants to settle down? And she blames the fact that people were moving as the reason why she didn't settle earlier. Give me a fucking break.

Zweihander7 · 2018-05-06T06:30:12+00:00

What subreddit was this?

Title	Yes.
Author	ALTRIGHT_REDDITOR
Upvotes	287
Comments	95
Date	May 4, 2018 3:46 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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