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Are my boundaries unreasonable?

December 23, 2020

Am i stuck up or crazy for not wanting to date a man who plays games that has nudity in it or tv shows/movies with nudity and the objectification of women in general? My last relationship with my ex was like this, it made me extremely uncomfortable because it always seemed he felt he had the right to women's bodies and that we are here for him and other men. I feel dumb for feeling this way, is this wrong of me?

Thank you x

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Title Are my boundaries unreasonable?
Author 19Bubbles98
Upvotes 38
Comments 4
Date December 23, 2020 1:02 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/askFDS
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askFDS/are-my-boundaries-unreasonable.1059985
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/AskFDS/comments/kiikzd/are_my_boundaries_unreasonable/

[–]socalqueenofcheese 31 points32 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not at all. Women everywhere are waking up to being objectivide. These games are projecting these unrealistic ideas of women as passive and sex dolls. Solid. He won't change. New year. New boyfriend

[–]posprov 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s not dumb! I wouldn’t say it’s unreasonable but perhaps unmanageable, as some seemingly okay games or tv shows could have that. It seems like nudity is everywhere and unavoidable, even if we try hard.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No you are not unreasonable or stuck up. Men see this behavior as normal because they have been doing it their entire lives. They have never been objectified like a woman has and we know how horrible it is. They say we are stuck up bitches when we ask them to stop objectifying women because it makes us feel less than human. Instead of understanding and having empathy, they get annoyed that we taking the fun out of it. Because really it is very fun for them it’s their favorite thing to do especially with their Bros.

[–]janatztxcxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You’re not unreasonable and if he starts objectifying women’s body, I do the same thing. One time, a guy was talking how ugly the waitress was looking, so I called the waitress and asked him to say infront of the waitress. Ask him, if he could say the same things infront of that person. Also, I would do the same thing to him. Guys should be bodyshamed more. Let’s just be real. North American guys are fat in general, even the average ones.

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