So I broke up with my ex over messaging. He was neglectful and ended up being an LVM. I thought he was thougtful and healthy because he was better than any of my other exes but it seemed to be another version of a mask. He never prioritized me and when I got an arm injury due to climbing, that's when I saw him for who he is. I couldn't really go out but he never once offered to help me run errands or let alone even stop by my area to check on me other than just ask me over messaging on how I'm doing.

Not gonna lie I wasn't as invested either because after my last horrific relationship and the lesson from FDS I continued vet and to continue to not invest myself early on.

Anyways, my last straw was when he started mirroring me with messaging. I was struggling one day with back to back work meetings and then some family matters right after and couldn't reply till the next morning. I called him first thing to explain and he acted like he was all okay but since that one incident, he started mirroring me and skipping a day or two responding while for me it was a one time accident. Anyways, even at the break up talk I gave him a sincere message, where I am, how I'm feeling and asked if he wanted to meet in person so we can have a better conversation/ hear his side.

Well, he hasn't read or responded to that message and it's almost been 2 days. From other incidents that had to do with himself, I did started to notice that this guy could not take conflict and saw a very anxious side of him so I guess he is avoiding the talk. Regardless, I decided I didn't deserve this kind of treatment anymore and blocked and deleted him.

I'm struggling though because he actually does take a bit to respond but is it really necessary for me to wait? I'm doubting my decision but I also feel like it was the right thing for ME. Help?