I currently have four men that I'm very carefully vetting on rotation. One of them is a single father, and he is probably tied with another as the most promising out of all of them. He's attractive, works out, has a steady job as a teacher, knows how to cook and clean and keep house, and has been incredibly respectful and kind. However, he has split custody with his ex-wife, who is remarried and now has another baby. I haven't ask him yet why they divorced, but I do know that it was rather amicable and they co-parent their kids, and even will hold events together (like recently, a 4th of July BBQ) so their kids have all parental figures there.

I'm always wary of single fathers (my parents were divorced because my father was a NVM), so I'm keeping my guard up. I myself am divorced, but have no contact with my ex-husband. What do you ladies think? He's nice to talk to and fun to hang out with, but I'm keeping my walls up very solidly for now.