I’m breaking up with my boyfriend

I love this man, but I don’t feel loved by him. He says he loves me. But... the phone. The goddamn phone. When he’s not scrolling on his phone he’s got his Nintendo switch in his hand. When it’s not the switch, he’s on the PC gaming. He simply doesn’t give me the attention I need. Whenever we are together he is so quick to pull out his phone. He’s great in all aspects except for this one. The fact that he’s inseparable from his phone caused me so much grief. It made me constantly wonder: what’s he looking at that is so much better than spending time with me? Occasionally I will look through his phone. First, he was constantly stalking his old coworkers and ex girlfriends on social media. They are all extremely young and pretty. I confronted him about it. He was mad but then deleted all social media to make me happy. (On his own, I didn’t ask for him to delete it, I just wanted an explanation.) But then he just switched over to YouTube. And even with social media gone he’s still not giving me any more attention. Strange. So I look on his search history. He’s literally googling the names of women now. Then the web browser will direct him to the tic tok, YouTube channel, or Instagram of the woman he’s trying to look at. I find this even creepier than just scrolling through social. He knows exactly who he wants to ogle. And some times it’s those very young ex’s. All the women he looks at are nothing like me and it makes me feel like absolute trash. I’m just done with feeling like I’m number 2 to the internet. In the future, should I not look into a guys phone? I feel like every man does this shit and I’m just hurting myself by exposing myself to the truth. Should I just remain happily oblivious in the future? Or are there guys out there who will actually pass the phone test?