I have a habit of dating guys and holding onto them even when I know I’m not fully interested. I don’t know why. Maybe I just enjoy having them there, because it’s a comfort.

This guy and I went on a date and slept together (not great, I know!)

During the date there was no real spark, but I found him very physically attractive. He was a little dull but seemed like a nice guy.

I got major ick though when he went to buy me a gin and tonic and lifted up my nearly empty tonic water bottle and said “is there enough in this for your drink? Do I need to buy another one?”

I also paid for the taxi home (to be fair he’d paid for the nearly all the drinks) and the next morning his phone died so I ordered him an Uber. He txt me later and asked for my bank details but I told him not to worry. I was being polite and thought he’d insist on paying me back but he didn’t…

I’ve a weird sense of humour and whilst txting I made a joke about something silly and he replied “are you ok?” I told him that I found that really rude and he was apologetic.

Anyway, I find him very attractive but I’m feeling the ick and seeing red flags. I don’t know why I’m holding on to this. He has asked me over to his for dinner and I’ve said I’ll go but I don’t think I should.

Any words of wisdom/advice? Thanks ladies.