Been reading and thinking about MRP a lot the last couple days. One thing that has come to mind is wether or not I’m giving my wife opportunities to add value to my life .

As a small example… often my wife will ask me if she can make me something to eat or take care of my laundry. I’m pretty independent on these sort of things, I usually tell her “Thanks, but I’ll take care of it”. I do what I want for sure, it’s my choice and there’s not any sort of CC or ego thing going on here. It’s as simple as if I need something I’ll take care of it myself.

I got to thinking, maybe I should be allowing her to do things like this and when they are done well praise can be given. I can’t create a positive feedback loop if I’m not giving chances. If I let her do tasks like that she may feel good about it and find herself wanting to do more?