22, 5'11", 200lbs, 23% BF, 200 BP - 315 SQ - 405 DL. Have read NMMNG, WISNIFG, Mystery Method, Rian's Blog and channel, Rollo's Blog and channel, most of the significant posts from HOA, SSS, Blarg, red-sfpplus and others on the main sub.

I know a chick's sexual repression is also expressed inversely proportional to my own personal value. Sexual repression and all goes out the window if she it is with an appropriately HVM.

Now that that has been said. I ask for advice on dealing with this issue. I am a relatively young guy. Other that LIFT MOAR, are there any other ways to deal with this? Of the 2 chicks I have dated long term (3 years with one and 1 year with the current one) the current one has had a very mormon-esque and a brief but significant history of sexual assault. I am no angel, but I like this chick. When I am with her we kiss and touch and stuff but any escalation further than that requires me to do some "grey area" stuff. She almost makes me do it. It seems a bit fucked up sometimes.

I am not exclusive to her. I had sex with another chick 2 weeks ago. And this doesn't bother me as such but if there is anything I can do, I would like that more than leaving this chick entirely. I have told her that she doesn't need to be exclusive either but she doesn't see other guys and is pretty heavily into me. We have known each other for 8 years. She was waiting for my previous relationship to end. We got together a year after that (I got into rp during that year. Lost 70lbs during that). So no it is not about lack of attraction on her side (imo).

Any anecdotal (or otherwise) advice from you guys about how you went about solving this issue if you have had to face this or were to face this? Thanks.

(I am posting here because this is the only sub I know which has more people who know what they are talking about than soft-r artists)

Edit: Some proof that I did do the work that I said I did https://imgur.com/a/G5xXROz