I go to bed, wife pretends to be asleep and then a one sided cuddle from her turns into her placing her hand just inside my boxers, I don't react, a few minutes later she moves her hand to brush past my cock, it happens again and again up the ante each time but just not grabbing it, all the while she is pretending to be asleep. Snoring etc, I doubt she is asleep and I'm pretty certain it's a way to validate herself and get me to react but she is in the safety zone of being able to pretend to be asleep. It makes me so horny, I get so frustrated but I go back to sleep, eventually. Is she shit testing me? How do you deal with this? I'm stuck in the mindset that she will say she is asleep if I react and not want to proceed my advances, I know this from my pre redpill days, also nobody wants to fuck someone who is pretending to be asleep.