So I went all WISNIFG on her last night. Assertively told her I want sex to be a part of our relationship. Then proceeded to use every tool in that book to navigate the conversation. It was actually pretty fun. Anyhow, my takeaway as her responses were, in a nutshell

  1. I don't feel very close to you
  2. I don't feel attractive because you don't tell me I'm pretty
  3. There's just not enough time (you'll see in my post history that we have a 9 week old) I just fogged, etc the whole time, and eventually ended the conversation. These responses are definitely typical for us, but I would guess are pretty typical generally. Just wondered what the group thought.