Bitchy mood

Red-Curious · 2017-09-30T01:52:42+00:00

The withdrawal of attention is better applied in a grand-scheme sort of way. You withdraw by scheduling other activities. On a particular day, you don't go into silence mode and just ignore her. That comes off as being butt-hurt. You're better off holding fame and having a good time in the midst of her bad mood. That's actually the best way to pull someone out of their funk anyway.

To be clear, you have to figure out your goal: (1) do you want to have fun tonight? Or (2) do you want to make it obvious you're trying to teach her a lesson?

SteelSharpensSteel · 2017-09-30T01:58:24+00:00

You want to know what grinds my gears? People going Rambo and forgetting that there has to be some comfort and fun too.

And here's Ollie Williams with the weather forecast. Ollie?

BluepillProfessor · 2017-09-30T18:54:52+00:00

Since she behaving this way aren’t I supposed to withdrawal attention

Withdrawing attention as a tactic is for sexual denials and I believe it should only be used for repeated denials.

Withdrawing your attention because you have a fun, awesome life and cannot be held back by a bitchy wife is something else entirely and should happen as a matter of course.

Don't overthink but realize that Dread Game is for sexual denials- it will make her fuck you but you are not going to make her "happier" or in a "better mood." To do that you need a strong, positive, upbeat frame and the skills to pull her into your frame. That doesn't happen much with Dread Game. It happens with leadership and having a fun, awesome life.

BostonBrakeJob · 2017-09-30T03:14:49+00:00

Sounds like what you're really asking is "Should I withdraw time/attention bc my SO breached my convert contract?"

Be honest. You were expecting her to do a triple backflip onto your dick because you decided to spend time with her instead of go to the gym after not seeing each other for awhile AND leaving money for her to get her nails done.

If that's the case, no. Stay right where you're at and GTFOI.

Since she behaving this way aren’t I supposed to withdrawal attention? But since I haven’t seen her and it’s the only time I’ll get too, am I supposed to stick around her and try to cheer her up or make her laugh.

The answer is still no. It's not your job to try to cheer her up. You should be the king, not the jester. Her mood is not yours to fix.

To echo u/Red_Curious , go about your day in the same mood you were in before you let hers get to you. I remember when I first started doing that and I was shocked how effective it is.

Talk to her like you normally would, all while completely ignoring her "attitude". Don't mention it. Don't react to it. Just go about your day WITH HER and watch her slowly gravitate toward your good vibes.

If she crosses a line, you already have a gym routine you can fall back on to remove yourself. But my guess is she's just groggy from her nap still and you didn't get the reaction you were expecting when you walked through the door.

MRPFuckMe1 · 2017-09-30T03:14:19+00:00

You haven't seen her much. She's expecting something on an evening when you finally get time together. Who knows what that something is, but it's not your problem.

There's a formula for Girls in shitty moods. Joke. Lightly make fun of them. Slap them on the ass. Laugh. Do something else.

Big_Daddy_PDX · 2017-10-01T00:43:03+00:00

It sounds like you've realized that you have a lot of tools at your disposal but you don't understand what hey do or when you should use them.
So she woke up from a nap in a mood; who cares? Give her a bear hug and cradle her in your arms and ignore when she acts like a child. Because that's what women do. Acting like a bitch to you? She's just flirting and playing. How playful are you with her in return? Get out of "reaction mode" and move forward with your MAP.

FlyingSexistPig · 2017-10-01T02:44:20+00:00

"Why didn't you pay any attention to me last night?"
"Because you weren't very interesting."

BobbyPeru · 2017-09-30T02:24:48+00:00

She could be getting so much time alone that she's enjoying it... To the point where your presence in the morning irritated her. My gut is that you are not the fun guy yet, which goes along with the abswer to your question: If you have a fun day planned, be fun.

Title	Bitchy mood
Author	starky000001
Upvotes	2
Comments	13
Date	September 30, 2017 1:23 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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