Consequences for her actions

2ndal · 2019-09-27T21:53:11+00:00

It's "beta" to lack the ability to make basic decisions on your own about your life. But I'll tell you how to act anyway.

You're going to a wedding. You're jazzed. It's going to be fun. She can come along if she wants to. She doesn't have to though. You don't really care. You're going to have fun anyway. If she decides to not go, sweet. If she decides to go, great. If she decides to be harpy, okay cool. You're still going to a wedding. You're still jazzed. You're still going to have fun.

Edit: God damnit I had to come back and say something else because these posts really piss me off. It's so fucking clear you've done zero work and have no fucking idea what's going on. I mean I guess we were all there at one point but for fuck's sake, you've been lurking for at least many months and you're still asking this type of question? Get your shit together, because it's starting to stink. Forget the whole fucking beta versus alpha bullshit. You need to focus on having a frame. What does that mean? I'm sure you've seen it thrown around a lot but it's clear you still have no idea. For you, right now, it means thinking for yourself and not letting your wife's emotional ups and downs have an effect on who you are and what you do. Grow some balls, think for yourself, and quit letting someone else dictate how you live your life. This doesn't mean go into rambo asshole mode, just live your own life man. Do what you want to do. Have some standards. Let your wife do her thing. When she has her little spats, great, let them happen, and work on not engaging them or letting them change you. Shit or get off the pot. Quit lurking here and start engaging. Make a plan. You're offering up advice in other threads that just repeat some buzz words you heard when clearly you have no idea what they mean. Quit being such a buffoon.

MrChad_Thundercock · 2019-09-27T22:12:30+00:00

Go by yourself and fuck one of the bridesmaids.

simbarlion · 2019-09-27T23:41:23+00:00

DNGAF.

You don't care if she doesn't go.

Neither do we.

SBIII · 2019-09-27T23:43:39+00:00

Your wife doesn't give a flying fuck about you.

So that makes two of you.

When are you going to stop giving a fuck about her and start giving a fuck about yourself?

Daddy_ThunderCock · 2019-09-28T00:22:01+00:00

Deeeeeeeeep in her frame instead of her pussy.

Redpillbrigade17 · 2019-09-27T22:07:53+00:00

Every day is a new chance for her to impress you and show her love. Don’t have full details but assuming it’s mostly her talk and similar BS that were sub-par, I’d ignore it and assume she’s gonna get dolled up, and be a hot date for you for this event. Now why would you want to risk canceling on that?

dll142 · 2019-09-28T00:40:58+00:00

You said it best....

.I have a wedding to attend tomorrow

Well, go. Doesn't matter if she comes... just don't get butt hurt if you show you're leaving and she whines and bitches and won't go. You'll get more respect in the long run doing what you want and let her miss out. Will she call you an ass? Maybe. Will she get mad? Maybe. I get called a selfish asshole alot. It's just shit testing from the most responsible teenager in the house.

What are your lifts and what kind of shape are you in? Are you the dominant one in the relationship? Do you lead? Are you unpredictable?

JameisBong · 2019-09-28T01:55:52+00:00

I vote no go, rewarding bad behavior will only intensify her shit tests. More importantly why is she still a harpy?Have you been training her correctly?Tell her you are going to the wedding alone,and you'll see her when you get home. Your time and attention is the only leverage you have over her.

jjj2576 · 2019-09-29T18:34:39+00:00

I went to a mythological zoo recently. Spent some time observing the Harpies— wanted to just see some cool shit, while walking a few miles on my off day.

Learned some neat shit about harpies— did you know that they are usually led by fags?

Mrmlap · 2019-09-29T21:52:11+00:00

Hey fellas - thanks for the kick in the ass. I was being a man child. In her frame and too worried about shit that didn't matter. Carry on

RedPillGlasses · 2019-09-27T21:31:56+00:00

I vote still go. You made a commitment to other people, not just her.

But SEVERELY limit your time interacting with her. When she questions it, “Hey, I haven’t seen Jimmy Steve and Sue in YEARS. Why don’t you come talk with us next time?” (Preferably Sue is a cute single mom with bedroom eyes)

Title	Consequences for her actions
Author	Mrmlap
Upvotes	0
Comments	16
Date	September 27, 2019 9:20 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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