Cohabitating LTR 4 years (which is why I'm posting this here). Dread lvl 3. 25M, 6', 265lbs. BF% too high to be relevant (currently cutting obviously) 155 BP, 315 DL, 225 SQ.

Last night LTR thought I looked upset or mad. She asks me repeatedly what was wrong. I've STFUing for a while now so I thought I would try fighting the shit test for once. First, I said "nothing is wrong" a couple of times. She wouldn't take that for an answer. So I said "Should I have a reason to be mad or upset?". Then, "Do you want me to be mad?". Finally, "I'm not mad. Stop asking, this conversation is over. Let's go take a shower". We went in the shower (no sex, shark week, not my cup of tea). After that, I noticed she was sweeter, and didn't bring up the "are you upset against". Note that I didn't lose my cool at all, and said everything with a smirk.

First question: was that a shit test or a comfort test? Or should I care at all?

Second question: did I handle this well?