[FR] Progress and how do I proceed.

FearDearg2015 · 2016-02-08T17:05:44+00:00

So, she texted you to come eat her out, and you did it. That's fine. I suppose you did well to contain your excitement, because no doubt you had a moment of "oh hell yeah!" when you read the text. And some failed shit tests. No biggie, you are improving and this shit takes time.

My big question is "how many times have you sent her a text and told her to come and suck you off, to completion?"

My guess is zero. And again, that would be fine. What I'm getting at is that you could easily get caught up in passing her shut tests and instead just find yourself jumping through hoops for her. Start putting your own hoops out there. Don't be afraid.

Persaeus · 2016-02-08T18:20:31+00:00

OP, you should study up on how to eat your woman's snatch. I am guessing you "hurt her" with your fingers; as I am uncertain on how to hurt a pussy with your tongue unless you bit her. Are your nails trimmed? Not sure how to break something that lubricates itself.

Scurvemuch · 2016-02-08T15:38:33+00:00

I'm playing it cool and indifferent, but I can't help but think I blew my shot for the near future

this line caught my attention - what do you mean blew your shot???

you still have some serious Oneitis for this girl who wants you to perform for her then will reward you with chores and putting down your performance!

Pussy

but that's ok because you will make yourself the prize, both internally and externally.

what is your plan?

do you even lift yet?

RPAlternate42 · 2016-02-09T02:05:31+00:00

Everyone else is covering the usuals.

My question is: How do you hurt a woman with oral sex?

whinemoreplease · 2016-02-10T06:07:37+00:00

congruence test failed.

what would james bond/don draper have done in your situation? how would he respond to the challenges?

see also -

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N-1BD8dOz30

http://www.hulu.com/watch/40972 - pay particular attention to the body language. Season 1 is excellent.

Seriously - watch his body language. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sBYM4V3trhc

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQWNUz0_pZo - look at how well he holds. homebody knows what he wants.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sQ10XWd64mw

the issue here is that you don't have the mentality.

Griever114 · 2016-02-08T15:20:22+00:00

Im not going to go back into your history so im approaching this as a fresh FR.

After reading your post, I am getting a lot of hesitation/still unplugging. You still do not have frame and OI. Which is fine, work on it. It seems like you are in the beginning stages of Dread which is fine, work on it.

Keep doing what BPP suggested. Keep reading WISNIFG, internalize that shit since your frame is still not good.

Your wife has your balls on the mantle and is swatting away your attempts to reclaim them. You have a LONG way to go.

After this she hits me with a request for me to put the kid in the car because they are leaving to a kids birthday party, even though she can do it herself. I comply (failed shit test?)

FAILED. So you eat her out, have sex and get stuck with a chore? Seems to me like you are the one making her a sandwich. You are a busy man. If you are not busy, GET BUSY. You should not be resting.

~~Lastly conversation, you AM well and I dont think you blew it.~~ failed. after re-reading, you dont have the balls to back up the AM bite. Or, in other words, she doesnt give a fuck if you laugh since she knows you wont find someone else to fuck

Follow BPP advice and continue with what you are doing. Its working.

MRPguy · 2016-02-08T17:47:22+00:00

H: well I don't know if I want to do that again, you hurt me.

Hamster translation: that was awesome. It hurt, but it was a phenomenal physical AND emotional roller coaster (pain coupled with orgasm). He'll think I'm a slut if I don't cover myself. Better mention how much he hurt me and let him know that I'm not sure about doing that again. This will solidify that I'm not a slut.

Scurvemuch · 2016-02-08T15:13:58+00:00

you fucked up a shit test dude

"You're rusty" was a shit test, one set up for AA/AM and not a factually based response

Something along the lines of " Ill keep practicing with Ms ( insert name of hot local chic here)"

"Well I don't know if I want to do that again, you hurt me"

another shit test.

" Aww, Ill give you a minute to rest" or something.

just anything but walking away at this point.

Overall good job on the STFU but you still failed a shit test or three

and Congrats for not victim puking all over her over the debasement of your sexual skills.

Homework - you could have turned the " come eat me out" into something much better for yourself. This one is yours to analyze.

Title	[FR] Progress and how do I proceed.
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Date	February 8, 2016 2:52 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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