So, I've been reading the saidebar and working on things. I've been going to the gym,picked up a hobby that really doesn't take much of my time yet,and am going on a work trip for the first time in years. Basic passive dread stuff that makes me feel and look good. Im happier now. However, My wife is going nuts. She'll be happy and doting for a week, then switch to Angry, crying, distant, talking about trust issues. I'm doing my best to stfu, although im not always successful I have been doing good with not Deering most of the time. My question is, when does this stop? She is generally an insecure person who doesnt trust people, so I don't know if I see an end in site. And what is my reaction supposed to be, I can't just stfu and ignore this shit forever, it's hard to be in the house with her half the time but I also need to protect my son from her yelling.