Handling rejection late at night?

470_2_700_nm · 2017-01-08T13:02:53+00:00

Seems like there a couple of things at play here. The first is your wife is waking you as you are well on your way to sleep. This is a boundary she is breaking, or that you have not set.

Second is the question of how to handle the no in this situation. If you ever find yourself asking this question go back to the boundary point I made. Issue isn't her saying no, it's you being woken up. I say this because it gets in your way of being awesome.

And fuck her and her rejections. These bitches know no other game. Fuck those rejections. Initiate the next day before work. If you can initiate with her over lunch. As soon as she gets home. Sooner or later she's going to cave or else just fuck some other gal on the side.

I told mine the other day upon her complaint of my rampant initiation "hey as long as your my woman you can expect me to initiate hard and often I can guarantee you that". She came back with "as long as you are with me?..???..?".
I shut the fuck up.

man_in_the_world · 2017-01-08T12:52:58+00:00

What's a good tactic to use in such case? Kiss and go to sleep?

Yes.

OI means getting on with your life and mission regardless of her response. Since you were trying to go to sleep before she came in, OI and IDGAF means getting right back to that.

screechhater · 2017-01-08T22:27:27+00:00

Perhaps side bar search for "shit test" and Webster dictionary for respect and self respect.

When my wife purposely wakes me up, she knows by god, it has better be about something important or to Fuck. And that is all. No bullshit games

Edit: So what the fuck were you doing before she woke you up ? Why oh why do so many guys live in the SO s frame ?

UEMcGill · 2017-01-08T18:08:31+00:00

Why the fuck is she waking you up for a bit?

My wife wakes me up she better be ready to Fuck if she does that. Sounds like you have a boundary issue not a fucking issue.

2gunsgetsome · 2017-01-09T21:00:32+00:00

Go mow the lawn.

cholomite · 2017-01-08T17:39:13+00:00

Kiss, go to sleep, make yourself less available the next day.

drty_pr · 2017-01-09T05:26:07+00:00

There is always the option of beating your dick like it stole your kids bike, towel off and fall back asleep. Not sure I'd have the balls to do it, but I would say worst case scenario she goes and sleeps on the couch.

GargantuaBlarg29 · 2017-01-08T15:01:34+00:00

Read shit and figure it out. This is literally every third post on askmrp.

VengefullyY0urs · 2017-01-09T16:08:28+00:00

This is a tough scenario because the go to advice is to OI and go to sleep, but even doing that you can still come off butt hurt in her mind.

Spend your life improving your physique, style, social circle, passions, and leadership during the day so your rolling over to sleep after a rejection is accepted as OI, and not hurt feelings.

BluepillProfessor · 2017-01-13T02:08:47+00:00

You are already half asleep. Just roll your eyes and then roll over. No words.

Title	Handling rejection late at night?
Author	alpha_as_chiwawa
Upvotes	2
Comments	13
Date	January 8, 2017 12:42 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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