How would YOU handle this...

RuleZeroDAD · 2017-02-01T01:06:44+00:00

Hey, let me talk with your wife.

I want her to write a FR about AAing you like a champ to shut down complaining after she initiated sex. She passed your shit test so easily, that you needed a support group after sex.

She's executing her sexual strategy like a boss.

SteelToeShitKicker · 2017-02-01T01:31:52+00:00

I'll save you the background story of my sorry-sack-of-shit-bluer-than-my-balls-faggoty marriage and just get right to question.

The background story IS THE STORY. Your latest situation is merely a symptom of the background story.

There are no shortcuts. A sorry sack of shit doesn't have many options.

Make some.

MuhTriggersGuise · 2017-01-31T23:42:25+00:00

As others have said, it comes down to what you want. But for some perspective, if I found myself in that situation I'd just laugh and disengage and find something better to do than have shitty sex. I wouldn't be butt hurt, but who has time for that shit? She won't reciprocate and try to make it fun for you too? Well ok, then she shouldn't have initiated if she's too lazy to do her part.

OP, in my mind she's trying to get you back into her frame. Just ignore that shit and only interact with her when she isn't being shitty.

cholomite · 2017-02-01T01:44:35+00:00

"I'll put your ass to work"

Then throw her down, flip her over, spank her, toss her, whatever you wanna do man.

ReddJive · 2017-02-01T14:21:15+00:00

I am going to deviate just a little.

First to newly unplugging guys....Yes. You need to improve there is no other choice here. Yes. Do what you want. She isn't going to because the standard you have set, the standard you have allowed to exist in is this "lazy fuck" situation.

NMMNG tells you to no longer accept bad sex....well...that's true but you aren't in the position to just walk away. She still holds your balls, you blue pill fuck. So you fuck her....do what you want.

As your SMV improves as you improve you will come to a point where you will look at her and say.

"That just kind of sums up everything doesn't it."

Realize you have allowed this standard to exist and sit. She's lazy because you allow it. You have tolerated it. I can't tell you how to change it. You have to judge that situation yourself. Sometimes the rambo talk works, sometimes it's over time and she realizes you are about to walk. Sometimes she's just a shitty person and won't budge. She likes it this way and won't move.

Fact here, bub, is that for you to ask this means you aren't ready to deal with it. The advice still applies. Keep improving. Keep initiating. I'll even submit to you that you haven't limited your presence enough if she is still acting like this. Two nos? What did you do? Details. They do matter.

stew7000 · 2017-01-31T23:33:18+00:00

--Need to lift---

Yes.

You're in this situation because she isn't attracted to you. Don't expect this to change until you've upped your SMV substantially. I don't think this situation would happen to a high SMV, oak, leader if he's doing it right. So that hypothetical isn't worth responding to.

Remember, she's your mirror. If you don't like how she's acting, work on you.

RedPillRisingFromAsh · 2017-02-01T00:33:28+00:00

If you want to get your end away just see it as that

Don't overthink it

saint_chalet · 2017-02-01T02:39:03+00:00

When she rejects and then thinks she'll throw me a bone (pun sorta intended) a couple of days later, I go cave.fucking.man on her. She either enjoys it or not...But I do.

Archwinger · 2017-02-01T12:14:57+00:00

One or both of you are fatasses.

As a result, you're not strong enough to move your wife around wherever the fuck you want during sex, no questions asked.

When you have to grunt and strain and take ten minutes flipping your wife over, she'll stop and ask what the hell you're doing. But if she's already where you want her and enjoying herself before she has a chance to protest, she'll start getting into the habit of letting you control your sexual encounters.

UEMcGill · 2017-02-01T00:06:28+00:00

"my girlfriend fucks me cowgirl, so she ain't lazy"

You let her bullshit you with a shitty excuse. So give her one back.

DEVI, E is important. Even bad E.

gettingmymojoback · 2017-01-31T23:10:34+00:00

What did YOU want to do at that point? Do that.

It's really that simple. You're over thinking it.

logger1234 · 2017-02-01T04:22:01+00:00

I'd tell her to lay on her front and come in, PIV, from behind. If she didn't want that, I'd leave and find something better to do. "Lazy I can deal with honey, but I'm not in the mood for lazy AND boring."

:-)

man_in_the_world · 2017-02-01T05:49:10+00:00

If you had been lifting, you could have laughed, said "No problem, lazy girl!" and picked her up by the hips, put her on top and moved her to and fro with your strong arms to get yourself off while laughingly teasing her SGM style. It would likely have been really hot and fun for both of you.

But you're a weak faggot who doesn't lift, so I guess your only options are to beg, whine, talk, or be butthurt.

Kind of sucks not having options to act, doesn't it?

The_Litz · 2017-02-01T09:35:11+00:00

I'll save you the background story of my sorry-sack-of-shit-bluer-than-my-balls-faggoty marriage and just get right to question.

Right now you believe your SMV is lower than hers. You even told us. She also knows it. That there is your problem.

Concerning your question. You can spin it different ways. You can shut up and caveman her, or, if you have some semblance of options and some dread going, just tell her "Nah, I am not interested."

The bigger of an issue you make of it, the weaker you appear.

GargantuaBlarg29 · 2017-02-01T14:07:52+00:00

But if you are a high SMV male, a leader, the Family Oak, how does one respond?

You aren't. Become one.

stonepimpletilists · 2017-02-01T16:42:41+00:00

Depends, but would (and have) gone with

caveman, finish when I want to thank her sincerely, go about my day. Take the moment to encourage her to step up and enjoy
stale fish? Get up, say this isn't working, carry on my day. Answer no questions, tell her 'not to worry about it'

It would also be part of a MAP, where this regular occurrence means I'm going up the dread ladder, and looking to replace her, and fix me at the same time.

Key point:

Never be butthurt. Thank her for the 'gift' and then do what I would have done. Acting like an asshole gets her to hamster this as 'you're an asshole' acting genuine and happy hamsters 'I'm the asshole'. And it's an emotion, better than duty sex and apathy
Have something to do. The gym, starbucks. At no point am I going to sit there and sulk

Soberskipper · 2017-02-01T13:37:38+00:00

Where your attractive enough and she feels lazy....shell either lay there on the end of the bed and let you face fuck her or let you brutally take her arsehole. Because she will WANT to please you...so instead of giving you starfish they'll incorporate something different because they know they ain't giving you The porn star showing you deserve. But to answer your question mine would be to caveman her ass call her a lazy slut With other derogatory comments, come on her face and then go do something else...thats how I treat my ltr when she insinuates she's too tired for sex and afterwards she's always fussing around me it's fucked up how rp works but it does.

All_Ads_Deceive · 2017-02-01T01:40:23+00:00

I drove Uber last night. Picked a girl up at 3am. She told me she just had a three way with her bff and her bffs boyfriend. This is how women behave when they're attracted to you.

If you stop looking for short cuts and LIFTED, maybe your wife will let you fuck her friends one day. You chuckle when you think women used to give you star fish and hard nos

470_2_700_nm · 2017-02-01T04:05:47+00:00

I would say just fuck her hard.

Woman don't have the testosterone men have. Stop wishing they did. And if she isn't satisfying for you, then go fuck another woman. But you probably are a sack of shit as you said "all that applies". Sounds like you need to put in the work before you can start seeing any results. This isn't a rubix cube or a riddle you decode. This is hard fucking work and you sir need to put it in. Simple.

But your question does't really give us a true idea of who you are. You say you need to lift, and then ask "If you are a high SMV male"...

I'll tell you, if you are a high SMV male, a leader, and the Family Oak, and your wife is a lazy fuck, you respond in anyway you want. And believe me at this point you will have options, and she will feel this, and so she will be less likely to be lazy and will suck your dick with makeup on while looking up at you with her big blue / brown / hazle eyes and she will love it.

But again, you are not being clear about where you SMV is. Because for what ever reason you want to be cryptic with a bunch of dudes who genuinely are taking the time to help you.

So stop that.

You can change this, it's in your hands not hers. Go.

Your welcome in advance.

Title	How would YOU handle this...
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Date	January 31, 2017 11:05 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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