(This is before I found RedPill) We were together for 2 years and in those 2 years we took turns each month , she would come here, and I would go there, we would see eachother 2 weekends every month everything was okay.

Fast forward, I propose , she decides to move in with me, but in that process she needs to leave everything behind, she quits her job and moves in.

We are 2 months in and she cant find a job yet, she is a photographer but lost all her gear (stolen) I buy her a decent camera and some lenses and a macbook so she can start to make a portfolio and such, in those 2 months a lot of frustration because she cant buy herself things and she always has to ask me for stuff, I am struggling a little bit because I only make enough for us 2 to survive, but she sometimes she wants shit that I cant buy or I wont buy because it doesnt make sense and will go broke eventually if I do, she sees this as me always complaining, but in reality shes asking for stuff that I can't provide at the moment, the plan was she would get a job so we could live comfortably.

Anyways, she doesnt speak english and needs to learn the language, cousin of mine (she is also her friend they lived together for a long time before) found a free english course downtown, cool she sets an appointment to sign up, this will give her something to do while she waits for jobs or gets a call from a place she applied. The day of the appointment comes, (note: she doesnt have a car only I do, I was supposed to take her to the appoinment but im at work at the time) and she texts me shes ready, I say cool I'll send you a uber, (I didnt know the details of the course or where it was , I shouldve researched this before so I could plan her metro route so she could go there easily and come back even tho she doesnt like riding the metro we have no choice at the moment, until we have enough to buy a cheap car for her to move around, I ask her for the address and I look it up and its 20 mins from our apartment, uber says it will be 25bucks, I am thinking ok 50 bucks roundtrip fuuck but whatever I ask for the uber, I tell her " Holy shit its $25 to go there" she responds "I have 20 dollars I will give them to you" me: " Ok cool but how many times a week do you have to go there? 50 bucks roundtrip is a lot of money".

She kinda explodes, this is not the first itme but its the first time she partially moves out, she took most of her stuff to my cousins house (cousin is abot to have a baby almost 9 months in so shes expecting the delivery soon)

Her: "You know what I am going back to derpville"

Her: "bye"

Me: Go out , the uber is there

Her: You never wanna do anything for me,

hER: Im not going

Her: Stop complaining to me about every thing that you invest in me (moneywise, and I never do I just point things out, and am vocal about how we are not in a good spot until she finds a job, I dont even verbalize this often but she thinks I do)

Me: I;m not complaining about anything, I want to know how often the classes are, because 25 bucks each way is a lot, you know.

Me:Go out the uber guy called.

Her: I wont go:

Me: I dont have money to pay uber everyday, its 50 bucks everyday, Im being honest, if it bothers you its your problem, we shouldve talked about this before.

Her: You dont know how to talk

Her: Only complain

Me: I didnt even know about the course until yesterday , cousin signed you up.

Her: If it was your choice you would want me in the house all the time

Me: No.

Her: I need to learn english, and not even that you want to help with.

Me: here I tell her all the shit that I helped her do and pay and how da fuq am I not helping her if she has everything ready to find a job eventually

Me: You told me yesterday that you dindt come here to ride the bus around.

Her: Its true I didnt come here to live a worse life than I had before.

Me: You dont consider our whole situation, how do you want me to pay, if our money is limited, I am trying to manage it to make it work, so we can make this work.

Her: This wont work , I asked you a million times. (about the english course Honestly I was too tired yesterday and she probably did but I somehow forgot it)

Me: We'll talk later, I have to get back to work.

Her: I dont want to , You never talk until we are in a bad situation and this is not the right way.

Me: We are not in a bad situation lol.. (Shouldve shut my mouth waaay before I know)

Her: I dont want to be with you.

Her: Not anymore.

Me: Oh well.

Thats it, thats where I am at, she took most of her stuff to my cousins house (Including the camera and laptop), Ive been chatting with my cousin and she says that she is "sad" to give her space, lol... Should I ask her to talk again?, I was gonna go to my cousins house, but I am not sure anymore. This ship is sinking. Help.