Setting boundaries with LTR orbiters?

Daddy_ThunderCock · 2019-06-08T18:59:42+00:00

Alphas don't mate guard. Do you lift or are you skinny fat and worried she is going to branch swing onto another beta dick? What is your concern here, how is she being disrespectful?

RPeed · 2019-06-08T18:56:59+00:00

I don’t get it: does she have orbiters or does she speak to men once a month at a social gathering?

Are you in Saudi Arabia?

strngExtent · 2019-06-08T21:38:35+00:00

diagnosis: oneitis

screechhater · 2019-06-08T23:28:28+00:00

Who gives a fuck on the amount of orbiters ? Seriously.

thou shall not mate guard

With a higher SMV, correct level of dread and frame, this shit does matter. The orbiter will back off as you come back and she will keep her distance fro the orbiter, trust me.

helaughsinhidden · 2019-06-09T03:44:06+00:00

I think your showing you are a low value man if these same guys either don't care to befriend you or that you are maybe shy or insecure. Don't try to play that "they are losers" card either because if they are real losers and you don't have a high enough value to scare off "losers" then you aren't pursuing excellence.

You also can't enforce a boundary. Bringing it up shows you are insecure and jealous.... because that's what it is. I'm willing to be you have zero female orbiters yourself. That's a bigger problem to be frank.

Personally, I encourage my wife to be a extra friendly to my friends, my boss, coworkers, people who attend the same meetings and groups, people at church. I'm not threatened by them and I also make friends with them.

SteelToeShitKicker · 2019-06-08T19:26:44+00:00

I know the standard line in here is don't care. And you shouldn't care. However, when I was vetting my woman, this was basically one of my criteria. Can I leave you alone and have you act appropriately?

Now I don't know what you mean by "gets consistent orbiters" means really. If it's guys coming up to her, so what? If she's obviously playing along and getting her kicks, eh, that's just not something I personally signed up for, but I specifically vetted for someone with a modicum of self-control.

However, there's a lot of area between socializing and acting inappropriately.

markpf73 · 2019-06-08T21:02:02+00:00

Old trope of mRP fixes the man.

NordicVikingKing · 2019-06-09T11:44:29+00:00

If you’re really the prize, orbiters shouldn’t faze you. Obviously they are, otherwise you wouldn’t be asking the question. The question you need to ask yourself honestly is whether your SMV is higher than hers. Are the orbiters SMV higher than yours? If so, fix it!

dll142 · 2019-06-10T01:53:36+00:00

My wife is beautiful and gets alot of attention from other men, but she stays loyal to me. If she strays (cheats), that's on her and she's gone. Don't mate guard. Makes you look weak.

Actually my lady tends to mate guard me, which is normal female behavior. Preselection makes them wet. If they are mate guarding you, that shows you have value.

Bedtimeshine · 2019-06-16T19:03:35+00:00

Orbiters? As in, She has men in her life that have their own agenda and don’t respect the relationship and she allows it? Or just that dudes hit on her when youre not around? Either way, the answer is you not being scared to let her go and having the balls to send her on her way if she crosses a line.

Title	Setting boundaries with LTR orbiters?
Author	strngExtent
Upvotes	1
Comments	34
Date	June 8, 2019 6:46 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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