Currently down 20 pounds, running with 60lbs on body semi regularly, best shape of my life etc. Current income is $125k / year.

Spent last weekend fixing up house, built two shelves for the garage and cleaned up garage significantly. Shelf fell down in our closet, fixed it within an hour. Wife has been bitching almost nonstop telling me I’m cold, unemphatetic, etc. Claims I don’t support her for her goals. I’ve said that those aren’t my responsibility even though in the past I used to help out.

I’m thinking this her trying to make me go back to being more beta bill. Am I misunderstanding something or is she just feeling insecure because I’m in great shape and have raised my market value? She has told her mom I’m getting ready to leave her after her mother commented on my weight loss.