2nd date - no Sex

dr_warlock · 2020-10-11T18:19:25+00:00

Guess what, she has work monday-friday. So that's gonna be her go to. Setup a friday/saturday date and you will definitely know if she's interested because work can't be her excuse anymore.

gracienoob · 2020-10-11T16:57:11+00:00

Why not

A lot of dudes here are all "Hard next if she doesn't put out in the first date"

I don't know about you but if I have the time and the patience I'll happily set up another date. If she doesn't put out on the third, I personally would lose my patience and pursue other leads.

There is no right or wrong answer, it's all about what you want to do

hedged6161 · 2020-10-11T21:19:14+00:00

These hard and fast rules will lead to men missing out on higher quality women. If you like her, wait it out a bit. Bang your plates in the meantime and build something stronger with the women in your life. If not, it’s just a waste of time

2020-10-11T17:08:07+00:00

Depends on your level of abundance I’d say. If you got a lot of other girls in the funnel like 3-4 other women waiting to go on a date with ya, then go ahead a drop her and then deal with new chicks. If not, one more date wouldn’t be a bad idea.

benhurensohn · 2020-10-11T16:54:06+00:00

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curvedbymykind · 2020-10-11T18:01:30+00:00

This is a shit test. Next her and fuck her roommate to assert dominance

Jokernun · 2020-10-11T17:29:03+00:00

This will sound harsh, but....

If she exists in your life for sex, next her if she doesn’t put out. That being said, it didn’t exactly sound like it’s entirely on her — sounds like you set up bad logistics.

Invite her on a third date in the few weeks when you get a chance, have her come over to your apartment for drinks, escalate and if she isn’t into it then just drop her and find a new chick

RP_Demigod · 2020-10-12T00:40:17+00:00

1) I don't invite girls back over. I tell them to come over and give them plausible deniability.

2) It's a shit test, smash it "Me too, I won't keep you up late. I am not the easy type."

3) If you are hot enough, she will stay awake until 3 fucking and still go to work. Ask me how I know.

BlocknGhost · 2020-10-11T17:54:22+00:00

If you’re not getting what you want out of dating her at this point, don’t get upset with her. Just lower you investment, get busy elsewhere, and let her do some pursuing.

throwawayinthetrash3 · 2020-10-11T18:16:55+00:00

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daddysgotanew · 2020-10-12T13:30:29+00:00

Nextttttt...It’s 2020. Chicks are selling naked videos of themselves to strangers online and fucking the dudes they really like in Walmart fitting rooms if that’s what it takes.

Two dates and a peck on the cheek? She’s not into you dude. Sorry but men need to understand this. If she’s not trying to take your pants off in the car in the parking lot after the date, your time is better spent elsewhere.

Ducthadon · 2020-10-12T18:19:37+00:00

She denied saying she had work at 8am. All I got was a couple of kisses.

Never kiss in public unless you are 100% sure you're going to close. Gives women easy validation.

I'm usually a 3rd date max to lay, 4th only if she is distinctive like Vera dijkmans level (booty wise). If she's just a standard hb5-7 nothing special it's never worth the wait there's plenty of them out there.

Go for a 3rd date, shoot your shot and have her over to yours right away or if not brave enough have a quick drink(30 mins max) out a very short distance from your place. Do it on the weekend when she is not working.

cleanitupcuck · 2020-10-11T17:15:20+00:00

You probably didn't win her roommate over when you went there. If you don't turn her friends on, the girl will question being with you.

This doesn't mean you have to hit on her infront of your date. Just simple flirts, holding eye-contact, holding her hand for a bit longer after the hand-shake.

Title	2nd date - no Sex
Author	throwawayinthetrash3
Upvotes	8
Comments	29
Date	October 11, 2020 4:47 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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