Abundance mentality: fake it until you make it?

abdada · 2015-09-22T15:54:40+00:00

Abundance does not always or only mean an abundance of women.

It means an abundance of options with how you spend your time.

uncagethewolf · 2015-09-22T18:11:38+00:00

If getting a girl is your first priority change that shit now. Women aren't your first priority. You are your first priority. Like abdada said, abundance doesn't always mean women. Do things for you, take care of you. You'll know when you are ready when you don't care if you have women or not.

throw_em_all · 2015-09-22T17:55:23+00:00

Abundance mentality, as in abundance of options, as in stop putting that girl up on that pedestal because there are lots more at walking distance.

It's unrealistic to expect a guy to act like his dick cures cancer when he can't even look at a hot girl in the eyes on the street, reframe the attitude, it's not that you can fail because you still get laid, you can fail because she's not the only hot women at walking distance.

Chad_Thundercock69 · 2015-09-22T23:06:12+00:00

Go out during the night or day and commit to getting one solid number a day... or every couple of days. You will get an abundance mentality pretty fucking fast.

dreckmal · 2015-09-22T20:57:59+00:00

For any given objective there are almost limitless paths to victory.

Abundance can mean seeing the options you previously discarded for whatever (more than likely bullshit) reasons you've concocted.

For example, if I know there is a chance I will be hanging out with an attractive girl, I immediately start to get self-conscious. How do I prevent this?

Just remember that she is human, she shits, and it stinks.

Let's even say she's a 10. Let's crunch some numbers here:

Let's assume a perfect distribution of girls on The Scale.

She is top 10%. Out of 1 million girls, there are 99,999 others like her. Out of 3.5 billion, there are 35 million other 10s out there.

You have the chance to sleep with 35 million equally hot women. Where do you not have the abundance?

RocketManV · 2015-09-22T22:22:15+00:00

Like a month into TRP, I was in Vegas. Went to a club and was able to practice abundance mentality like this, if I walked up to a cute chick and got rejected, there were ten hotter chicks I could talk to right after. I had no abundance, but from that night learned that it is a frame of mind you can have even without finding success yet.

Danedina · 2015-09-23T09:30:53+00:00

abundance is not a catch-22 and there is no fake it til you make it. It's having the balls to ask out so many girls that you risk overbooking. You don't ever get used to rejection; it always feels bad. The difference in a situation of abundance is that you pull out of your depression much much faster when you remember that you've got another date lined up for tomorrow night.

At some point you're on a date with a girl who, in your oneitis days, would have held the power of god over you, but now you realize that actually she's kind of annoying. In the old days you would have kept kissing her ass. But now you're realize all you really want is to pop open her bra and slap your dick against her huge firm tits, but if that doesn't happen soon, like within the next two hours, then you're outta there and never calling her again. Your abundance mentality gives you the balls to turn the conversation into sexual territory, and you're pushing in closer to find out how much of what she is packing is bra padding and how much is real. Low and behold, she responds to your sexual advances in ways you never dreamed were possible and you're making some pathetic excuse for her to go back to your place and she agrees! What the fuck?!?! I can't believe this red pill craziness actually works!

Title	Abundance mentality: fake it until you make it?
Author	MonkeyCoconut
Upvotes	17
Comments	18
Date	September 22, 2015 3:46 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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