Alpha with thots but beta with potential GF-material females?

Republic_of_Ash · 2021-03-31T03:25:29+00:00

Well, at least you're aware of it. That's a start. In my opinion, I'd say as long as you hold your frame and don't over invest in her, you'll be fine. Some beta shit is gonna seep through from time to time, just let it pass and go back to holding frame.

It's because you feel you have more to lose with a girl who's not a hoe, and higher value. That makes sense. Higher value girls tend to vet more too. Just relax, and enjoy the convos, have fun. Keep a check on your investment in her though. Also, yeah, talk to all the hoes still.

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2021-03-31T10:53:07+00:00

plot twist:

The "good gf material" girls are thots and hoes too...for the right guy(s).

ReadyBison6336 · 2021-03-31T09:54:14+00:00

This is classic Madonna Putana complex! It's not that uncommon either. But it's going to be troublesome, if you ever decide to be in a committed longterm relationship.

bumbuff · 2021-03-31T14:59:36+00:00

Take the advice here with a grain of salt. And I mean the whole sub.

TRP philosophy is great but most guys use it as a guide to getting laid.

So when you start down the RP path you tend to pick and choose your development and strategy to best getting laid.

What does this mean?

It usually means means men are increasing their options of women.

What it doesn't mean?

LTR potential women don't shred their panties any faster for you.

So what ends up happening?

Men are fucking the 5 through 9s with daddy issues. Or confidence issues. Or trust issues. Or has an issue in general.

End result is a lying cheating woman when you get a bit older.

No matter what you do to keep your SMV high, women with issues tend to cheat because they want validation. They want to believe they haven't hit a wall.

That doesn't mean LTR women aren't out there. But the lifestyle most guys here have don't intersect with the women that you want as an LTR.

No daddy issues. Moderstely Religious. STEM educated. Loves the outdoors or athletic.

That's your goldilocks zone for an LTR woman.

These women are not on dating apps when they're younger. You got to get out and meet them.

Every-Performance985 · 2021-03-31T04:42:04+00:00

It's actually a great strategy, what you're doing is calibration and every non autistic guy gets it

Contrary to popular belief, quality girls are actually turned off by too much alpha, you need to show a little bit of beta

The trick here is not to be boyfriend material but boyfriend potential i.e Alpha with a soft side

Musicgoon · 2021-03-31T08:19:45+00:00

You are putting women into two categories. AWALT bro, AWALT. All girls want to be treated like you treat your THOTS. You actually are treating them unfairly and making an assumption that they are a delicate snowflake. You're robbing them of an experience they want.

For a guy that dominates them, they will become his dirty cum guzzling fucktoy.

You need to be absolutely filthy and sexual with every girl you see, not just THOTS.

SteveSan82 · 2021-03-31T06:36:29+00:00

Enough experience has taught me to not fall for it. The only time those thoughts come is if I’m at her place with a nice view in bed touching her tities. While feeling good.

Then I remember that I’ve been through this multiple times only for the girl to branch swing later.

antariusz · 2021-03-31T07:58:53+00:00

Are her desires the same as the typical tinder hoe?

Look to the sales of the book that you referenced in your very first sentence to find your answer. But you also misinterpret the book if you think they want 100% alpha. They want to TAME the alpha. And it's not just about being 100% physical, but he was also mentally and socially a leader also.

User36474746 · 2021-03-31T09:49:05+00:00

"Why not both?"

150420throwaway · 2021-03-31T11:27:15+00:00

Any links to what OP refers to as being the guy from 50 shades? I keep on reading this once in a while and just wonder what I should be doing

Snowboard18 · 2021-03-31T17:24:34+00:00

I get what your saying, you feel like your going too alpha when gaming the what I call it “the library type” of girl.

Ime some of them are just using that as a mask because of strict parents or caring too much about what others think, but deep down they a ho that wants to get railed by chad

But some of them actually are somewhat innocent and genuinely nice.

I think the best way to tell the difference is by knowing their true n count or number of relationships they’ve been in. I know girls lie about this shit so it doesn’t help much but I think it’s very true. The girls that have only dated like 1 guy in their life, which one of my fwb is this type, they are usually not wearing a mask.

But the girls that have dated many guys is probably using that quirky vibe as a mask

redknobmirror · 2021-03-31T17:57:52+00:00

The hipster intellectual girl and the thot want to be treated by men the same way they just have different mating strategies in getting those needs met.

Once you’ve gotten to know girls of both types well enough you will realize they are the same deep down on the inside. Hipster girl wants a soft relationship the same amount of time the thot does like 15-30%. Wants dominant male majority of the time.

While initial game will be different with either, long term game will be the same.

Title	Alpha with thots but beta with potential GF-material females?
Author	twocouldneverbethree
Upvotes	49
Comments	38
Date	March 31, 2021 3:11 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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