Am I overthinking?

FuckboyAWALT · 2018-04-11T09:33:06+00:00

Huge red flag if she’s doing certain things with other guys but not with you. Means you are lower smv.

Plate material at best.

redhawkes · 2018-04-11T10:10:51+00:00

The Eunuchs Of TRP

Wait For It

Store_Front_Door · 2018-04-11T08:38:46+00:00

He was the one she couldn't lock down.

But it shouldn't matter to you. Also, don't rush in to a LTR so fast, see if she's actually worth it first.

frankreyes · 2018-04-11T11:20:15+00:00

Just by reading the title my first reaction was: "yes, you are".

After reading the body of text: "yes, you are".

MattyAnon · 2018-04-11T12:18:41+00:00

The thing is the guy she had sex before was a guy she fucked after few days and it lasted 1 week because he went abroad or something.

Alpha fucks.

Anyway, we were talking about our first sex and she said it was to soon.

Too soon with you, yes.

and she said that she knew from the start that it won't work out with that guy from before but for me she didn't wanted to be to easy because she wanted to LTR me from the start.

Alpha fucks, beta bucks. This is the "make him wait" game that women do with betas, but not with alphas. She has spotted that you will offer commitment, and she's right - you DO want to LTR her. And this is your mistake... trying to LTR. That's her job after sex, not yours before it.

It's possible or it's bullshit and that guy was just more alpha that me to fuck her as a virgin after few days when I had to wait. Or Am I just overthinking this shit.

No, you're exactly right on this, and you're very right to be wary. Will she ever respect you as much when you're paying a higher price for less?

zuhbooze · 2018-04-11T09:02:47+00:00

Why do you care if he's "more alpha" than you? Knowing the answer to that question won't help you anymore than not knowing.

You shouldn't give a shit about her past. Don't ask, don't entertain, don't question. She fucked you and you apparently like her. Everything else is just white noise.

You're probably giving off vibes of insecurities that she'll inevitably pick up on unless you stop.

cappadocianhawk · 2018-04-11T09:52:39+00:00

Who cares? The real problem with your post is that you want to LTR this girl.

Just no. It's her job to want to LTR you. You are the man. Your biological purpose is to go around fuck as many different chicks as possible. Her purpose is to lock you down so you have to raise the kids. You never ask or imply excluisivity. Plate her until she starts asking for a relationship and then you can see if she's been good in the time ( should be at least 6 months, maybe a year ) you've been fucking and spending time together and decide.

A man gives up a lot when he restricts himself to one woman. Of course most men can't even get one, and if they find one in the wild they pedestalize that shit, therein lies to problem.

McVaghunter · 2018-04-11T10:57:22+00:00

I want to LTR this girl, her n count was 1 (seems to be true)

Stopped here, ain't reading the rest of your blue pilled nonsense.
Unless she's 15, her n-cunt is not 1. Maybe 1 LTR, but they never count ONSs and FWBs. And what the fuck do you care about their n-count anyway, you're not planning on marrying her... A-aren't you?

Just curious how old is this girl... Goddammit I'm gonna lose my sides if she's over 20 yo lol

yesbuthereswhy · 2018-04-11T11:17:45+00:00

You don’t talk about sex before you have it. That is a fuck up. Women never initiate. It’s always up to you. Now you’ve created some Disney fairy tail where the next time she has sex it must be perfect because 🌈 and 🦄 and magic!!! Drop the oneitus and drop her.

Title	Am I overthinking?
Author	NavyBlueCrow
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	April 11, 2018 8:22 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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