met a girl through a friend's party last year (jan 2016), kept in touch and always was aggressive with setting up dates..she had a ltr boyfriend but broke up with him recently(1-2months), and she came over last week, after knowing me for 4 hours and flew to my country. she's only had one boyfriend, and says that im the second person to have sex with her. she cancelled her flight 3 days ago to stay longer and left yesterday

we took some ecstasy, and she said im like a breath of fresh air and hasnt thought of her ex, although she has mentioned him quite a few times since she came. what i learned from her is that her ex told her that he wouldn't fuck anyone but her, i also learned that he was controlling and didn't like her spending time with other guys. she said this trip to my country was the best trip of her life, and we really did do awesome stuff. she held my hands, cooked, cleaned my place, sex whenever i wanted, and went out.

her and her bf broke up because he did something bad to her family, she told me she would've married him up until they broke up. After asking me how many kids i wanted, and the names of them, she said her and her ex were thinking of children's names together until they broke up.

im wondering if she is alpha widowed, and will always think about him if we were to be in an ltr. i told her that she is obviously still in love with her ex, which she denied, looking sad all day, then at night saying that she was upset with what i said, and that she hasnt thought of him, and said why would she fly over here to fuck another guy if she was in love with him. although she mentioned him in our conversations every now and then

i told her "i want you to be happy, whether it involves me or not, i don't care",she said "what if it does involve you?" and said that i am pretty, hot, perfect humour, play an instrument, and make her feel horny (her exact words).

she told me yesterday before she left that she feels so comfortable with me, like we've been dating for a year, because we click, and she says she can be natural(not wearing makeup unless we go out) but i told her i felt it wasn't a good thing if she was comfortable with me, because it creates boredom. she disagreed. am i wrong here?

i didn't like her mentioning her exes so many times, and wondering what my next actions should be. i also happened to mention a tiny bit of my past relationships and fucks, so is she just trying to one-up me by mentioning her ex? she made me promise to meet her in summer to another country for a holiday together. i feel attractive in her eyes, but i don't know if she's worth pursuing.