Attention whore?

TXJohn83 · 2020-09-09T05:50:49+00:00

Why would she ignore the call question?

She lives with a guy... Don't waste your time ever trying to get her on the phone. The upside is she will not ever call you.

would that mean she's just talking to me to get some free attention?

Yes, and maybe. You are giving her free attention, but you need to focus or trading attention for ass, she sounds like the type that would do it.

so what gives?

She is talking to 4+ dudes, you just have to be the one that she wants to fuck.

AuberyBitoni · 2020-09-09T12:50:30+00:00

What's the point of chatting with Tinder girls if you can't meet? A LOT of girls still meet during COVID.

Either set up a date and fuck her or become a beta orbiter who texts her 2 hours before she goes to bed.

rprookie · 2020-09-09T06:39:35+00:00

Same I notice an similar pattern when I would ask a female a question (usually text) and they’ll ignore it. Seems like a shit test but it’s weird asf.

RP_COGuy · 2020-09-09T15:03:30+00:00

You haven't met, then you aren't real to her. This is a pretty universal truth that isn't repeated often enough. You don't become a real person to a woman until you meet in person. Before that, you're just some non-real entity that gives her attention.
Girls like this also always have 3-5 guys they're talking to at the same time. You're just one of the group. Either meet her or next her. Anything else is just giving her attention and validation.

dontbeanasshole777 · 2020-09-09T09:15:41+00:00

Eh..you can't meet in person.

Use this to practice talking and trp theories.

illihuikbar · 2020-09-09T07:03:22+00:00

Set up a date ASAP you pussy. COVID ain’t shit abd we’re in a plandemic (1.Something % infection rate for Christ sake)

And stop texting her you’re gonna kill attraction. Text for logistics ONLY

agentnamaste · 2020-09-09T07:41:46+00:00

Actually, in the sidebar you will find your answer

michael1962-01 · 2020-09-09T12:15:24+00:00

Rapport building is after (.....f$$ing....)

Aspanu24 · 2020-09-09T12:53:30+00:00

People get anxiety about talking on the phone. People would rather text or talk in person. It’s like when someone knocks on your door and you don’t know who it is, you don’t wanna answer.

rhofire · 2020-09-09T13:32:00+00:00

I have a feeling this girl likes me

How can she like you? She's never spoken to you. All she knows is pictures and texts. The same goes for you.

At this point, it's a fantasy on both sides.

I am just wondering what gives when a similar situation arises

Stop putting yourself in situations when this would arise.

power_cleaner · 2020-09-09T16:12:28+00:00

Where do you live?

Livecrazyjoe · 2020-09-09T16:24:58+00:00

Alot of girls are on dating apps because they are bored. Doesnt matter if they are single or not. They just want attention. Remember thats the commodity you bring.

Another angle is she may not be that good looking in real life. In my experience Ive seen a ton of girls use filters. They all do. But the problem is when I meet them in real life. They dont measure up. Makes for an awkward date.

I would just move on. She is obviously wasting your time. If she wanted to meet you then she would regardless if its on a video call or in real life.

chessman6500 · 2020-10-31T00:49:46+00:00

I mean I don't see the harm in meeting her if you do it outdoors.

She may feel uncomfortable on the phone and wants to meet in person instead. Just take the necessary precautions (wear a mask, meet outside, etc) and you will likely be okay.

A good tip is to see if she's hung out with anyone recently who might be infected.

mr4kino · 2020-09-09T07:48:36+00:00

Sidebar. Read it.

Title	Attention whore?
Author	something_random_927
Upvotes	11
Comments	17
Date	September 9, 2020 5:42 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/ipaa8u/attention_whore/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/attention-whore.212500 https://theredarchive.com/post/212500

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