Beta signals in LTR, clarification

AnonymousSportsExec · 2020-03-25T08:22:47+00:00

People falsely believe that being a fuckboi is 100% alpha and nurturing a female emotionally is "beta."

I strongly disagree. I am in a LTR, have multiple FWB/fuck buddies, and have ONS. I treat all these women the same.

One exception is that I only buy gifts for my LTR.

Sometimes, I'm with these women when they are hurt emotionally. They may have lost their job, suffered a death in their family, gotten into fight with a friend, etc. I listen to them, comfort them with my masculine presence and calm, logical advice. Then give them a good fucking.

I don't tell them, "hey I'm not your emotional tampon, get outta my house and text me when you're in a good mood." Like some autists on here might recommend to do when a woman comes to your emotionally hurt.

Alphas are leaders. Being a leader means you lead others to greener pastures physically, mentally and emotionally. If you can't improve others well-being emotionally, you aren't an alpha.

Desadarius · 2020-03-25T08:23:05+00:00

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2020-03-25T07:53:52+00:00

Focus on being 90% 'alpha' and the beta will come naturally

redlurker9 · 2020-03-25T08:05:04+00:00

Depends on if you're a natural beta or a natural alpha. Most readers here are naturally beta. So am I. I give plenty of comfort without even trying, so I just need to work on my alpha vibe. You probably do too.

urbanfoh · 2020-03-25T08:19:41+00:00

I found it depends on the girl. Is she insecure or has she a big ego? Do you get mainly shit tests or more comfort tests?

If you get several comfort tests then do stuff like promising her that she'll be safe with you, tell her you are happy that she is around, text her some romantic stuff and so on. Generally project that you are willing to stay with her, because she thinks you are a great guy and is afraid to lose you.

Do what textbook betas do all the time just in controlled doses. And reduce beta behavior if she begins to take you for granted, i.e you get more shit tests.

SmellyCumStain · 2020-03-25T10:28:46+00:00

Be a benevolent cunt. People know you're a decent human being but know you won't put up with their bullshit just because you're likeable.

pyth0ns · 2020-03-25T16:37:45+00:00

What works best for me with women is you go by their cycles...

When they're on their period, you can get away with Beta tendencies as they're wanting comfort and support/emotional/extra needy/etc.
(Honestly, if you can - avoid them when on period but if you're LTR and living together... Then eh)

Once that period is over though, their internal/natural instincts is to get that egg ovulated.
Keep her constantly swooning over you (Alpha traits to the max) and constantly on edge over you (Dread her)

She will be initiating to fuck you daily!

Then as her period comes around again - Rinse, Lather, Repeat...

Title	Beta signals in LTR, clarification
Author	Desadarius
Upvotes	9
Comments	28
Date	March 25, 2020 7:31 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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